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How do I get a conversation going with a co-worker

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lostinlove (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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There is this girl at work I really like! And every once in a while I catch her glancing over at me. She always smiles when I come up to her every morning to ask how she is doing then there's really not much said afterwards not by choice of course but because I'm a rep for a company that is always busy and so is she and I never really get a real chance to talk to her. When I do it's brief and what makes it really hard for me is her dad is the owner of where I work and I'm really shy. I like everything about her so what do I do?

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Manijha (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Let me tell you one thing buddy dating a co-worker is not a good idea. what IF things don't work between you two not trying be a jerk but just think about it (it could get really awkward afterwards) plus her dad is the OWNER, not saying he's gonna fire you or anything but fathers can get over protective but sounds like you really like her, so this time when you see her ask for her number get to know her since you not sure what to talk about take her to movie and then you can both start a conversation about the movie and then move to other topics like what you like to eat, where you wanna travel etc,etc Good luck!
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oxchloeexo (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Haha I am in your situation. My dad owns where I work and I really like this guy that works there, we always smile at each other and talk and he always sees how I am. I don't really get the chance to flirt much because of my dad so that doesn't really help. The thing is though I just want him to tell me he likes me and ask me out sometime. So I think that's what you should do.
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americanita04 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Well I guess that makes two of us. I have the same problem as you. I like my supervisor and he constantly makes me smile. It's hard for me to tell if he just wants us to be friends or more than that. He treats me differently than the others, but that's about it. But you're a man, I guess it's easier for you to ask her out rather than me asking him out!
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MizzRosa (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
First you should get to know her then ask her out on a romantic date. After that you tell her how you feel and ask if she wants to become more then friends. Tell her that as soon as you really get to know each other that's when you can start going out. She tells her dad and that's when you come and you ask her dad if he wants to go somewhere tonight just the two of you and you start asking questions...and act cool with him.
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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
Email her a note...giving her a note seems so high school...(do you like me? yes or no) Just say, "Hey would love to grab a coffee, are you up for it?" She should respond by saying yes, when or I can't today but maybe tomorrow or just I can't...if she says I can't without giving you anything to go on then she is probably not interested.
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canthelpstaring (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I work at a grocery store and women are always smilng at me, but that is it. Maybe I'm too shy to say hey let's get together, or I'd like to know you better, but it is a friendly hello and smile.
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wolfepak31 (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
Well brother it is time to go into 007 mode. This is an oldie but a goodie. Write her a small note and give it to her without anyone else looking and write confidential on it. Just ask her if she would have coffee with you one day. Short, sweet, simple. Also, include your phone number in the note. By doing that you just put the pressure on her to make contact with you if she is interested. Now she has to make the first move. It takes all the pressure off of you asking her out face to face in a hostile environment. Let me know how it turns out Ace. Good luck.
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