Do girls like shy guys?

There is a really good reason you can talk to other guys easy and with girls you have a harder time.

The answer is simple, when you speak to other guys, there is NO SEXUAL TENSION. you are free to be who you are and have fun.

With girls, there is an added element of tension because, you like them that certain way. When people get stressed, you can draw a blank. it doesn't matter what situation it is. You have to find a way to ease the tension, when you find that way. You will also appear more confident, which we all know is an attractive trait women like. It isn't be all end all, but it is something that women consider attractive in a guy.

I can't tell you how to ease the tension, all I can tell you is that you need to find a way to ease it. You'll find a way though, its going to happen sooner or later. Hopefully soon right? :-)

for some yes but for some no.quite a difficult question but if you gona ask my preference.it doesn't matter.as long as he treats me right.im shy myself but well, I think I had controlled that a long time ago.shyness doesn't make you less of a person.its who you really are.altho there are some girls who really prefer an outgoing and more forward one but then you can never really get the substance from the person if you didn't look hard at him.looks isn't as important as the person'spersonality as well because looks are just simple work of art.what if that work of art got deteriorated then where is the valued posession he has?the most important in a person is who he/she really is.now what he/she is.people tend to go forward to something less important but if you gona ask me id rather go to the most important one his substance.

all I can tell u.there are girls who like shy guys.and don't be afraid for who you really are.because I can feel that ure a nice person.only superficial girls (girls without substance) won't like u.ok? cheer up!

i don't think that's a biiiiiig problem
i mean if you wanna connect with a girl, you don't always have to have an extremely long and intense conversation - at least not right away
general small talk (that, like the other guy said, you can practice with random people lol) and small gestures woud do until you would eventually feel less tense and you'll become as comfortable talking to the girl as to a guy

plus I dono about other girls, but I don't like the reaallyy out-there guys because they do seem like they would be able to hook up with anyone really easily - and I start wondering how easy it would be for them to be faithful

plus shy guys seem sorta mysterious ;) andd do eventually open up anyway

It really depends on the guy. Guys that are over confident and cocky are turn-offs to me. Guys that are shy tend to be a little more humble and sweet, and once they get the message that the girl is definately interested in them, their confidence builds and they become more of a risk taker: i.e hugging/ kissing her. But for shy guys, a girl has to recognize it and make it clear to him that the interest is mutual. He won't chase without a safe way of knowing that she likes him too and only then will he will pursue her and lead from there. Most girls like their guys to be leaders when it comes to dating and relationships; at least that's the way it should be. Shy guys just need that extra push over the hill and they'll be just fine.

to an extent. we like if they're slightly more reserved than the loud, obnoxious guy because it makes him seem more genuine.but girls are also like to be chased. so if you're too shy you'll probably miss out on a girl who was waiting for you to make a move.

In a way. It varies from girl to girl. We don't want someone who is so loud and outgoing that they will hook up with anyone and not stay committed to just one girl. Just as guys have trouble talking to girls, girls have trouble talking to guys they like. Hell I blush and can't even look the guy I am into in the face right now for fear that my eyes/face will reveal everything! We don't want them TOO shy buy not too loud either, somewhere in between.

ive liked a lot of shy guys in my time, but recently I'm liking more confident (not cocky) guys but yeah we do like shy guys we like whoever we fall for shy,confident or whatever they may be