Dealing with mixed signals and interpreting them with women?

some women just need to know they are wanted because they are insecure and they don't trust men. it also can be that she is playing a very complex game of hard-to-get. she sounds ridiculously immature though, and probably not worth sooo much effort.

Games are so not worth it. Only little girls play them ( some women can be girls too) My advice--stop playing her game and go out with a lady who doesn't feel the need to do this to feel in control.

whatever she is going through, remember she hasn't been a friend to you by playing these dumb games - you can't know for sure if she is playing another game - again, you need to just decide, to keep her as a friend or not. And from there you will know what to do.

In my situation with my coworker - he could have been interested in me or not.I don't know for sure.but he did adjust for me and stopped his inappropriate behavior and slowly began talking to me as he used to talk to me. He began to act as he used to act towards me. That's huge because I have never known anyone do that for me. He could have been a jerk by talking inappropriate things around me or do more 'accidental' goosings to me.but he didn't, he left me alone because he took notice that what he was doing was making me feel very very uncomfortable and I began to really distrust him. And slowly he began to hang more and more around me during work and talked a little more each day until he saw that I wasn't as uncomfortable as before being around him. How many people you know would do that? And yes, we worked many months together during that time, but still, he was still a stranger - what do I know about him other than his name? But in the end, he chose not to be friends with me and didn't want to keep contact with me. He may be not ready to do that with a girl, maybe he's scarred bad from previous experience, or maybe he just didn't believe me, or maybe he just doesn't know how to be friends with a girl - it could be a million reasons - but I have to respect that he moreorless showed that he doesn't want to be friends or at least remain in contact. He could have been interested or not, maybe he didn't want me to leave when he acted that he wanted me to leave.I can't say for sure. I can only go by from what he said and his actions. That he cared enough to adjust for me, but wasn't interested in me and showed no actions that he wanted to keep in contact with me. He may have had a lot of things he wanted to tell me he may have not. But I cannot force it out of him and I can't force him to be my friend. It's up to him, he has my email and I said contacted him 3 times before I left my workplace for my career change to another state. And that last time I saw him, I said goodbye to him face to face. you can't read mixed msgs, but take what they give you and that friend of yours isn't being a friend and now you have to think and decide what you should do. To keep her as a friend, or not keep her as a friend.
I hope only the best for you and wish all will go well in your situation! ^____^

meet up with her because she is not getting it and I think you need to decide - to keep her as a friend or not a friend. Period. And then tell her what you think of her behavior has been and that you do or don't accept it and will or will not tolerate it. And I believe in forgiveness and keep no record of wrongs, but also she isn't keeping her part in being a friend and what she is doing isn't what a friend would do - she isn't being upfront with you and plays mind games and doesn't tell you the truth when she said she'd meet up with you, she doesn't meet up with you. Would a friend do that to someone they cared and considered a friend? I wouldn't think so. I see you are trying to be friends, but she wants you to play her game, by keeping you to herself, however she wants you, by being her play thing, just for herself. Nobody should be a plaything, you're a person and so is she. You can tell her that you do care about her and wished to be friends with her, but as long as she keeps acting the way that she does, you will or will not remain friends with her. You can also ask her upfront why is she playing these games with you because I know I would want to know and she should give you an answer. If she does not, then she does not give you a straight or any answer. Fine. You can't make people to give you an answer, but you can at least ask to find out and be upfront with that person. You and anybody else, are not someone's plaything - we're ppl, not playthings like some toy you keep around in the closet.

it just sounds like you guys are platonic friends really. As long as you don't want anything more than that, nor does she, it seems you guys are good friends to each other.

I think the people we are dealing with are people who were burned badly before from their previous relationships (before they met us). And so, they still want to be around us, to have our attention.but only played by their rules and keep us guessing.

In my situation, if the guy tells me he isn't interested and doesn't date co workers, even if he 'accidentally goosed' me.all I can do is take his word that he is stlll not interested in me, no matter what flirting or communication he gives me. Because I've tried to interpret mixed msgs and as a wise person told me.mixed msgs are just that.mixed msgs.there isn't one way to interpret them.so the interpretation will always come out mixed!

I think as long as the person who is giving you mixed msgs and isn't seem interested enough to take a chance on you, then it sounds like they aren't interested enough in you or that they just aren't ready yet to take a chance on someone just yet.

So keep looking and going out with other people because it doesn't seem like you're a person that does mixed msgs either. And you can tell that girl that you don't do mixed msg and prefer that she doesn't do any more - depending on how that makes you feel. I should have told that guy to stop with whatever he was doing and that I shouldn't feel ashamed to tell him/ask him to stop.
It bothered me and I know he would have stopped the mixed msgs because he kept making accommodations for me or kept adjusting for me when he realized I didn't like what he was doing to me.

i think she's syco and doesn't want you to be ur boyfriend.
she just wants to control you I think you should re think about this girl honestly.


controling people never goes well.


trust me!

She is possessive of you but doesn't like you enough to date you. She likes that you in her life and when she needs someone, she can call on you. You're her bitch. When you date another girls.of course she is going to be jealous because clearly she saw you as her possession. She couldn't believe that you could get over her and start dating another girls. Be careful with her because she can ruin your relationship with this new girlfriend.

A lot of girls give off mixed signals so you, as a guy, do this.get confused and start to think about her all the time. And guess what, it worked haha. If I were you, I'd keep playing the friend angle and invite her to group outings to the bar or something so you get to hang out with her but she doesn't feel pressured to say yes. If you think she's depressed about something, ask her about it and say something like "well we should go get your mind off of it" or something, but be casual about it. She will like that you care and it will show you have her best interest at heart, not just what you want out of the situation. Best of luck.plus don't feel like she is the only girl that plays these "games."