Ok. I went on this one date with this guy whom I been talkin to on myspace off and on for 7 months and overall he's noit very talkative or outgoing but what turned me on about him was the fact he was a stripper and I was just so curious how the sex would be with them. I know it has to be good. All at the same time, I was willing to get to know the guy and stuff. So we had sex the first night(Amazing like I knew it would be) and the next mourning he took me home. He texted me hey cutie later that day and I texted him back a long text showing interest in him and he never responded. The next dauy he text hey sexy and again I would text basck more than that expecting a response and still nothing. finally I called him in like 2 days and we talked about it and he was just pretty much sayin he is interested he's just so busy right now and will make time for me when things settle down. in other words, he wanted me to wait for him. How long does a girl have to wait until she feels like the guy is just not that into her? 4 days went by and heard nothing from him. he is going to school too but really I know that if a guy really likes you he would take the time to at least say something? I don't know if I'm being pushy or impatient but I just don't feel like he knows what he wants. I call him and he never calls me. Its obvious right? maybe he just doesn't want to hurt my feelings? well, after realizing that he's been leasding me on saying he is interested aand stuff, I ended it and he would deny that I'm takin this wrong and to be patient but it seems stupid. So I told him bye don't text me anymore you confusss me. well after 3 weeks, he calls me suprisingly saying that he wish I didsn't take it like that and that he just at a very busy point in in his life. huh? What sense is this? he's actions don't match his word. I don't hear from him in days after every time he tells me that and I'm the one who calls. can't b into me right? but then after gettin fed up with it, I stop talkin to him then he comes back to me? maybe he does? things still haven't changed after that. he says he'll call me back a lot then never does. I am just so confused! He wants me, but he doesn't?
Update: Guys, I really think he's just tryin to keep me as an back up for when he not gettin none, here I am. we only did it once a month ago and he doesn't even seem any more interested and me but he's tryin to keep me around. no. I'm done.
4 months ago
Yea I was thinking that too but then why would he bother at all after that? or even call me back after I stop talkin to you and explain y he is so busy and wants me to understand that? probably for more sex. well its been like a month since then and he hasn't tried to meet up again yet he comes back but still unreliable? I think he's playin games with me or got me on the side line so when he wants me I'm there. kind of like on his time I feel. - 4 months ago
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Ummm yea dont wunna b mean lol really...its called BOOTY CALL. that's what he's duin - 4 months ago
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Yes he is. that just made me open my eyes more cause I know he could make time if he really want besides we didn't have chemistry. WE HAD GREAT SEX! lol! I was just hopin I could get closer to him and later become his girl just for that incredible sex. maybe my intentions are wrong too but at least I'm not leadin him on. - 4 months ago
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U can't date him just 4 sex..... show more self respect you kno?? ur better then that. - 4 months ago
Just say to him: if you're no longer interested, tell me, and I won't take it personally. if you keep saying you're "just busy", you're stringing me along. If you're actually just busy, you should stil have time to just give a text.
I've done said that to him many times that it wouldn't take much time to say something to me and not go days without contacting me and he won't change it. Anyhow, I'm done with him. He was a waste of time - 3 months ago
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