So when ever I see the guy I have a crush on, we always start talking and he tells me what's up in his life and asks me how I am doing. And every time he looks over in my direction and I catch him, he smiles big. He has actually come up to me and started a conversation and later that day he teased me. The last time We spoke, though, he complemented my hair saying it was pretty the way it curled. I then gave him my number, and no he hasn't called me back, which is whatever. But every time we see each other we seem to hit it off pretty well, I mean our conversations are great and they go on and everything. I think I have been pretty obvious that I like him.
So WHAT'S UP? IS HE FLIRTING WITH ME OR JUST BEING NICE?
Sometimes it doesn't matter that you're pretty obvious with him. He might have self-esteem issues that prevent him from acknowlegding that a girl like you would be with a guy like him unless he has a girlfriend already.
Sometimes there is nothing more obvious than the words "I like you, you're funny/great/smart/easy going/a great listener/a great conversation" when the guy is more nervous than you are. From your description, he is flirting with you by the book and there is a 95% chance (this means it's almost a sure thing!) that he is more than just being a nice guy.
I have a 95% ? That's great. You know, it's funny that you would say that might have self esteem issues because for a little while I thought HE was out of my league! And since he hasn't called me, doesn't that say something like lowering my chances. He really seemed sincere when he was like yeah that would be cool to hang out... - 4 months ago
i think he is being a nice guy for now with the possibility of it becoming more later. As a guy, he knows you are interested, unless you have told him otherwise, or he thinks you have a boyfriend. I think he really enjoys your company and several things about you. Relationships do work better when you are just friends first. Maybe he is really thinking of that and wants to make this whole thing work? It is always nice to have friends like that tho.
I agree that relationships work better when they start out as friendships. It's just I wasn't sure were HE was coming from. - 4 months ago
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Maybe HE is thinking the same thing. I will say as I guy that if you are cute and putting yourself out there I would for sure be pursuing things. I don't really know if that would mean talking more or a date, or what, but I would move a little closer to you - 4 months ago
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Well then, for now it's his move, right? I mean what more can I do, I have all ready, like you said, put my self out there. Any other advice? - 4 months ago
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Why don't you just ask him to go out with you sometime? It doesn't have to be anything big, but ask. all that will happen if he says no is that you will be back in the place you were right now, not know what he thinks. He will still talk to you and everything. I would say give that a try and then you will know for sure what he is thinking. - 4 months ago
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Uh-hm, I already asked him if he wanted to hang out, and didn't mean anything serious. He gave me his number the first time and then a couple of weeks later I asked in a different way and I gave him my number, although, he did tell me that he would be busy that weekend and I told him then call me when you are free, we don't have to hang out this weekend... He said he defiantly would... Truth is he hasn't called. But it's weird, he seemed really sincere when he said he'd like to hang out. Uknw? - 3 months ago
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