There's this guy that I kind of like. He has told me in the past that he likes me too (we used to work together). I stopped working at the place that I was working at before and rarely we would still send each other text messages. He invited me to lunch once too, which is pretty cool. I think he's a great person but I had a boyfriend so I didn't get involved.I recently found out that my boyfriend had lied to me about visiting a girl (he didn't do anything, but he still lied to me.) I was so upset and hurt and the first person I texted was him (the guy I like). He said he would be there for me and that he liked me etc. We texted here and there for a few days and we finally met up and went to out. It was cute and fun, and I shared with him how I was having hard time getting over all of this and I mentioned a few times how much I loved this guy (my boyfriend who lied to me) and said how upset I was and that I didn't know what to do. He listened and gave me good advice and one time, over drinks that night, we had eye contact which I remember he started laughing about in a cute way. It was romantic.Anyway, the movie ended and he walked me to the train, but when I offered to walk him to his, he was quick to say no. He said it politely but it seemed rushed, like he hadn't had a good time, but I know that he did. He told me to text him when I got home, which I did and I told him to call me. He called and when I started to talk to him about how upset I was about everything he got off the phone with me... Again, politely. Then everyday after that I would text him cute messages and he would text back really cute stuff and be really sweet, but he never really initiates it. Am I being too open with him? I am so confused... Does he like me?
hmm.this sounds familier! Iv been thru something like this quite recently! Only I didn't actually go out somewhere with the guy that liked me. I almost did.-- and I remember feeling so guilty about it. I thought about all the good times I had with my boyfriend (whom I am still with, and I'm glad that I am) and I thought about how much he cares about me. I also remembered back to when he first started liking me (and vice versa). after flashing back to the all good times and how much we truly love eachother, I called him and told him everything I was about to do (I was upset with for somethings when I was talking to the other guy and the other guy just made it all seem better if I wasnt with my bf.) I told him everything and I apoligized and begged that he forgive me. he forgave me and we both promissed that we'd tell each other if we were unhappy with one another instead of going to somebody who would cause a break up. we also promissed that we would be completley honest and admit if we did something bad. what I think you should do is the same. talk to your bf. if you admit that you went out with this guy and ask for his forgivness, it will make you both stronger. make a promiss that you'll both tell each other when you're unsure about ur relationship. if he does care, he'll probably forgive you. but if he's fired up about it and wants to break up, well, that's what you get. but when you are completely honest and talk to him about it, you'll be able to handle something like this in the future and hey, you might be able to go out with this other guy and not feel guilty. talk to him and tell him EVERYTHING and ask for his forgivness. hope all goes well! :) P.S. yes, the guy likes you! but you should at least try to fix things with your boyfriend first. oh, and talk to the other guy and explain (only if you end up still being with ur bf) that you can only be just friends for now. if you like him tell him that he does have chance with you, but just not at the moment because ur still with ur bf. GOOD LUCK!
I think that your boyfriend visiting another girl is no big deal. You shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend either by going out on dates before you officially broke up w/ your BF. The guy you like might like you, and he might not. If you want to find out, you should get closer to him.... AFTER YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. But I still don't understand why you would do that...he did not do anything bad to you. I think you are being overprotective. Pick which guy you like more and stick to him.
nobodygirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
First off, why did you make such a big deal about your boyfriend visiting a girl?
Before you say you didn't--yes, you did. You called the guy you like to complain about your bf. You might have had a reason, or maybe not. If the guy didn't do anything, you shouldn't have been mad. If he lied to you, think about why. Has he cheated in the past? Does he think you're too jealous? You should reconsider your relationship.
Second, you shouldn't flirt with a guy when you have a boyfriend. Maybe the guy does like you, but how much do you think he'll want to go out with a girl who might call up his competition to complain about him, and then go on a date with them?
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