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I told her..?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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After a while of liking a girl enough was enough and I wanted to tell her, so I waited until there was a big party, where with the help of alcohol, I would tell her, but she didn't show. So I had a few, and then some more and I sent her a text message telling her that I like her and there was no reply.(theres a small chance that she didn't get it, cos I was in the middle of nowhere with bad reception)

When I saw her next it was a little awkward but after about an hour everythin was back to normal.

i decided to tell her again, this time on msn. I did it wen she was off line so wen she signed in, it would pop up and she would c it.But again no reply.so if anyone has any theories or advice it would really help thanks!

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lilmama (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I think that she did get it the first time. She either a: doesn't feel the same way b: doesn't know how to react cause maybe she feels the same way or c: she's got too much going on. If I were her I probably would dance around the question too. If I were you I would take her aside or call her so she has no choice but to respond.
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Captain-Sarah (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You people make me want to cry. Why did you feel it would come across better if you told her your feelings for her in text? Why would she be more receptive to them this way and not by telling her in person? Now that you decided to go the text route you are stuck wondering how she felt about it or if she got the message at all. You couldn't get any tell off her face or body language when she found out and now you are stuck stressing out over it. A woman wants a man. A man doesn't tell a woman he has feelings for her over text, he tells her to her face. Teenagers do these things over text not adults. I suggest you talk to her about it face to face. You probably can't make it any more uncomfortable than it already is. Good luck buddy.
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Tatiahna (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Ask her if she went on msn lately. Just bring it up and the conversation and if she did then ask her what she thinks of the message you sent her. If she didn't tell her to go on tonight and that you have a surprise for her
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Question Asker She has been on latley cos we have chatted a few times..but she acted like nothin happened - 3 months ago
Answerer Oh, then maybe she doesn't want to reject you because she doesn't want it to be awkward. Maybe she's avoiding the situation. Don't keep telling her you like her because it'll freak her out. Wait about a month when you two are closer and then tell her if you still feel that way about her - 3 months ago
 

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l-hedoniste (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
First of all, what signals are she sending? If you don't know, you're not ready. Then, if she's sending good vibes, you hang out with her, FACE-TO-FACE. Yeah, it's tough, and you might go down in flames, but nothing is more unattractive than a lack of courage. P.S.: Drunk-texting, drunk-chatting, drunk-dialing=HORRIBLE IDEA. From such notions, comedy is born.
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Question Asker Shes sending "good" signals..and she was ment to b at the party but she didn't show thast why I txted her...and I won't see her for like a month - 3 months ago
Answerer She going out of town? If so, wait, then meet her when she gets back. Better yet, date someone else in the meantime. - 3 months ago
Question Asker No she's not going out of town, but I only saw her through school and football, school ended last year, so it was just football but the season is over now - 3 months ago
Answerer So ask her out. What's the problem? - 3 months ago

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AOgixxer750 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
get off your balls and tell her in person. its kinda a "high school" cheesey way of doing it through a text and msn. man up dude
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Question Asker I don't see her too much anymore because the footy season ended other wise I wuld have - 3 months ago
Answerer Well nows your chance to make plans to go out with her. plans something fun to do and have it just be that, a night out of having fun. don't go out with the agenda of telling her that you like her. go out, show her a good time, and if she does like you, you'll know by the end of the night for sure. - 3 months ago
 
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