So I am an attractive girl, but am shy and sweet. Guys seem too hesitant to come and talk to me. My friends say it's because I am quiet and intimidating. I'm really nice, but just really independent and I like being on my own.Guys just stare at me and admire from a far.There is a guy I am interested in. He is sexy, loud, and I'm just extremely attractive to him. He is in one of my classes and I see him constantly staring at me A LOT. Like he can't take his eyes off of me. Since I'm shy so when we make eye contact, I quickly look away.One time, I asked him about the homework and he looked nervous and answered the question quickly (because he was nervous).I don't know what to do. What should I say to him? It's so awkward to just go up to a guy. :/
nobodygirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Just talk to him. Get over your shyness (I know how hard it is, I'm shy too) and ask him some question. Just keep asking him open-ended questions about things he mentions in the conversation. You won't have to talk much, you'll mostly be paying attention to him.
It sounds like you're asking how to approach him. Ask him a BS question about homework. When he answers it, ask him how he likes that class (Ugh! I hate Ms. Johnson! What do you think of her class?) While you two are talking (or really, while you're listening to him talk) flirt a little. Lick your lips, play with your hair, look at his mouth, point your legs towards him. He'll be thrilled.
I think that you should make more small talk with him, and make him realize that you are more than just a pretty face. Make him comfortable with you, and then you can just go from there! Hope this works!
americanita04
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well, from my past experiences, being a shy person myself,Ive learned that the best way to overcome shyness is by challenging yourself and don't be afraid of talking to a guy or looking at him in the eye.Every time you turn your eyesight away he might think you're afraid of him, which you don't want him to think so.So go ahead, be outgoing.You'll see great results instantly!!!
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