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Can girls ask boys out?

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josie (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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My friends always seem to hold themselves back even when they're dying to get the boy. And when I seem to get enough courage to ask this boy who I like a lot (and he seems to have some feelings for me too) my friends keep telling me that I should wait and that he is the one who needs to ask out. Can girls ask boys out? It sounds a bit silly that we can't :(


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farmhand99
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farmhand99      When: 9 months ago
yeh girls can ask boys out
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bigascanb
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bigascanb      When: More than a year ago
of course you can ask them out. waiting can mean your too late. so if you like someone and you got the courage to go tell them go for it.
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Hollister78
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Hollister78      When: More than a year ago
i don't think that it should really matter, go for it. the guy probably is shy and doesn't know what to do about you lol he wants too but he just can't get his feet moving in that direction.
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Falken16
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Falken16      When: More than a year ago
haha don't ask him out it is too much of a confidence hit for him, he'll feel like the woman. just make sure he knows you want him to ask you out. make it really obvious.
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Maiden-England
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Maiden-England      When: More than a year ago
Yeah, if you like someone then it doesn't matter what gender you are . Just take a risk and go for it
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ShayanM
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ShayanM      When: More than a year ago
Sure they can I think most of the guys would really like a girl who ask a boy out. and most the guys who likes someone will wait and see if the girl likes them so if you think that he likes you then you go for it.
most of us (Males) think the same way as girls do
That's what I think and it is right for 80% and that's when you don't exactly know if the boy likes you!! trust me most of the guys do.
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21      When: More than a year ago
Umm yeah my ex asked me out her friends were forcing me to ask her out and I wasn't gonna but she eventually was like I think we should be going out and all... so do it. If you want to go by stereotypes, then that means girls can't wear jeans, have to do whatever the man tells them, has to cook, has to perform sex whenever. I mean it is kinda unfair how the man to this date is still supposed to pay for every night out and hold the door open and all that.
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nitro3000
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nitro3000      When: More than a year ago
Yea you can, to be honest I would prefer it that way cause I'm a shy guy and I have trouble getting up the nerve to ask girls out.
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Sweetfeetpeet
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Sweetfeetpeet      When: More than a year ago
Of course it's ok I think its a dumb stereotype. If you like something go after it.
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niceguy14
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niceguy14      When: More than a year ago
Of course girls can ask guys out. If you don't take a chance you will never know if it was true love. Nothing is to stupid or silly. Take a chance, it might turn out for best. :) "life is like a box of chocolates,you never know wat you'r gonna get" (Forest Gump)
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f15x28
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f15x28      When: More than a year ago
By all means
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Zillidan
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Zillidan      When: More than a year ago
Yeah, you can ask guys out! ^^
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roten27
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roten27      When: More than a year ago
I have been asked out by girls before and loved it. There is no reason in the world that you can't ask a guy out. The only thing I would recommend is that you have yourself ready for rejection. I feel Guys are a little better at dealing with the rejection because we have been rejected so many times by women. I always look at rejection as a good thing though. at least they were man or women enough to tell you strait up that they did not have feeling for you.
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GoodManDave
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GoodManDave      When: More than a year ago
Heck yeah you should!
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homer
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homer      When: More than a year ago
It is perfectly fine for girls to ask boys out. And by doing so you are not only getting ahead of others, but also score an extra point for letting him know that he is worth it. Since it is very seldom that girls do that, you are also most likely catching him off-guard. I'd say go for it. One tip though and this could happen when boys ask girls too, and that is, don't come off as desperate as it may backfire even more than if it was the guy asking.
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jaclynjune16
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jaclynjune16      When: More than a year ago
yessssss, you can ask him out :)!
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Yes yes yes do it its the only ways people are getting together now boys aren't asking that much these days
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clovergirl1992
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clovergirl1992      When: More than a year ago
Of course girls can ask guys out. I mean yeah it is tradition for the guy to ask the girl out but when a guy is shy or something the girl has to take the bull by the horns and just go for it!
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Experience-Babe
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Experience-Babe      When: More than a year ago
From what I think...I would say yes. Well its not only the guy that could make a move you know. Its the 21st century and things kinda work a little more different than the 19th century. So don't held back go ask him.
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Duh yea lol
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doctorwholover
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doctorwholover      When: More than a year ago
Well I think you can...cause he might chicken out and never ask you out.
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ladygator81
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ladygator81      When: More than a year ago
I've asked guys out. I would never do it again. It's up to you, but I don't do it because you are making it easier on him, regardless of whether he is shy. If you want to know that he has feelings for you, let him do the asking. Think about it this way: What man would say no to a girl asking him out? Don't make things easy on him. If he "seems" to have feelings, let him show them by asking you out. Otherwise, he doesn't care.
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lolypop
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lolypop      When: More than a year ago
Of course you can ask out your guy! Go for it! Especially if you have the courage, no one should be able to stop you!
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bestofbothw22
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bestofbothw22      When: More than a year ago
I asked my boyfriend out and ever since than we been together ever since..not long but still if the guy don't do it and you know you like him and he likes you and its killing you because other girls know you like him and try to make you jealous you just come right out with it praying for a yes instead of rejection. ya dig.
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iluvgiraffes
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iluvgiraffes      When: More than a year ago
It's all up to you. If you are going to regret asking him and you are going to feel bad about it then don't do it. But if you want to and you won't regret it later and you feel that its the right thing to do then go for it. There is no right or wrong thing to do. There is no set rule for this. Girls have the right to ask boys out just as much as boys have the right to ask girls out.
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