My friends always seem to hold themselves back even when they're dying to get the boy. And when I seem to get enough courage to ask this boy who I like a lot (and he seems to have some feelings for me too) my friends keep telling me that I should wait and that he is the one who needs to ask out. Can girls ask boys out? It sounds a bit silly that we can't :(
i don't think that it should really matter, go for it. the guy probably is shy and doesn't know what to do about you lol he wants too but he just can't get his feet moving in that direction.
haha don't ask him out it is too much of a confidence hit for him, he'll feel like the woman. just make sure he knows you want him to ask you out. make it really obvious.
Sure they can I think most of the guys would really like a girl who ask a boy out. and most the guys who likes someone will wait and see if the girl likes them so if you think that he likes you then you go for it. most of us (Males) think the same way as girls do That's what I think and it is right for 80% and that's when you don't exactly know if the boy likes you!! trust me most of the guys do.
Umm yeah my ex asked me out her friends were forcing me to ask her out and I wasn't gonna but she eventually was like I think we should be going out and all... so do it. If you want to go by stereotypes, then that means girls can't wear jeans, have to do whatever the man tells them, has to cook, has to perform sex whenever. I mean it is kinda unfair how the man to this date is still supposed to pay for every night out and hold the door open and all that.
Of course girls can ask guys out. If you don't take a chance you will never know if it was true love. Nothing is to stupid or silly. Take a chance, it might turn out for best. :) "life is like a box of chocolates,you never know wat you'r gonna get" (Forest Gump)
I have been asked out by girls before and loved it. There is no reason in the world that you can't ask a guy out. The only thing I would recommend is that you have yourself ready for rejection. I feel Guys are a little better at dealing with the rejection because we have been rejected so many times by women. I always look at rejection as a good thing though. at least they were man or women enough to tell you strait up that they did not have feeling for you.
It is perfectly fine for girls to ask boys out. And by doing so you are not only getting ahead of others, but also score an extra point for letting him know that he is worth it. Since it is very seldom that girls do that, you are also most likely catching him off-guard. I'd say go for it. One tip though and this could happen when boys ask girls too, and that is, don't come off as desperate as it may backfire even more than if it was the guy asking.
Of course girls can ask guys out. I mean yeah it is tradition for the guy to ask the girl out but when a guy is shy or something the girl has to take the bull by the horns and just go for it!
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
