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How do I let her down gently?

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qwertyqwe (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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a girl likes me,but I don't like her? how do I let her know that without hurting her feelings?

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-stare's at me a lot (I have caught her doing that many times)
-once she conveniently 'tripped' so close to me that she would have fallen on me , but I took a step back (!)
-she has shown she likes me since past 2-3 months but I have not reciprocated her feelings ,not even a smile.

now I want to put an end to this . but with due importance to her feeling's .how can I let her know I don't like her the way she likes me, but would consider being her friend.

also I like another girl but does she like me?
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Baby-Gurl
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Baby-Gurl (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Well tell her that you don't like her . . . there is no nice way to reject somebody
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darlanoy0510
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darlanoy0510 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Why would a guy want to be friend with the girl he doesn't like? being friend with the girl is going to hurt her more then being reject it. If you know that you never going to reciprocal her feeling then just tell her straight out and yeah she going to feel hurt but she'll get over it. As for other girl, she does shows the signs that she likes you. Just make your moves and show how serious you want to talk or date her. I think she is waiting for you make your moves that all.
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sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
I have had this situation happened to me more than enough times. I have handled the situation in many ways, and it really depends on the girl.
When I have told the girl that I'm not dating at the moment,then the idea they get is that maybe later on somethign can happen, so that was a bad lie! ahahaha
I also have told the girl straight out that I'm not interested in them, and a couple replied---you wouldn't even want me to be your fvck buddy? Which by then I was smart enough to say, 'oh, I would be your fvck buddy anytime, but you would get so attached that it will cause you trouble in the long term so best not to do that.'
I have told the girls that I liked somebody else, and that was also a bad move.
And finally, I have told them that I was not interested them in anyway, but wouldn't mind being their friend.some cussed me and others decided to be friends and we hung out; I think they hoped they would 'conquer me' but since they didn't, they kind of disappeared away.
Now, the question is---do you talk to this girl at all? Because if not, you can let her know you're not interested, but if you do offer to be a friend, be aware that she might take that opportunity to even like you more.
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dlo1340 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
just tell her the truth.
"look I find you to be cool, but I'm not interested in any romantic relationships with you! I think it'll be cool if we were friends instead."
if she can't accept that offer then its on her, nothing to do with you.
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l-hedoniste (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
I suspect she's cock-blocking. In case she is: "You're really sweet, but there's someone else I'm interested in. I'm sorry, but could you back off a little? You're complicating things."
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