This dude Greg he's way cool but I really don't like him but he's always trying to get me to chill with him or go to the movies or anything. I feel horrible b/c I really don't want to and it might give him the wrong idea I don't want that! But like what should I do about it?
I have to agree with nobodygirl. You don't really like him, so you have to let him know in a nice way. However, what women don't commonly understand is that most guys don't want to be 'friends', and when a girl talks about being 'friends' some guys think that she thinks like him... 'She must like me too if we are friends'. You have to tell him that you can't be his friend for a while, give him a chance to cool his jets, and stick with it. Don't be afraid to lose a friend... I can guarantee the friendship doesn't mean the same thing to him as it does to you, after a week you'll see what I mean. Being led on can hurt feelings, so be honest. Good luck, Kyle
niceguy14
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Have you been trying to tell him you don't like him that way? If not try to drop a few hints. And if he still doesn't get it, try telling him directly. Just tell him he is awesome but he is not your type but he is a good friend. It will hurt him but keep talking to him like you're a friend. If it doesn't work out then there's always restraining orders (lol jkng). Hope it works out. "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know wat your gonna get" (Forest Gump)
Chill with him once then be sure to stress that you just want to be friends and don't want to get into a relationship. then chill any time you want but when you get a vibe that he's starting to think that you might be going further unless you start to want to go further be sure to tell him again that you're just buds!! :)
nobodygirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Make it clear you only like him as a friend. When you talk, make sure your body language isn't flirty. Talk about what a good friend he is; better yet, talk about your crush.
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