I've known this guy for 4 years, and I've really liked him for 2. I've tried subtle things just to see if he's comfortable around me and I keep getting mixed results. He texts me all the time, whether he's having a bad day or if he's just bored. But sometimes when I touch him innocently, like if I sit next to him I'll make me knee bump his, sometimes he pulls away really quickly, but sometimes he doesn't. Hes one of my best guy friends and he says he's told me things he's never told anybody else. Does he like me? Is there any body language that I can watch out for that will tell me if he likes me?
This maybe one of those cases of a guy being a friend. i honestly think this guy enjoys your input, and I think he enjoys you as a friend. definitely check the eye contact, and you should know. telling him you like him might make your situation weird, but at least you'll know the truth. you could have someone else talk to him about it, and gather a honest opinion to see where you stand in his line of wanting to be with someone. good luck
Sweetfeetpeet
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Ummmmm...yes.....do you guys make prolonged eye contact? See how he looks into your eyes. The knee bump could just be him nervous, but I am not there to observe. I wish you the best.
Think of what you can absolutely tell about this guy. He likes communicating with you--the texting and the talking. He feels uncomfortable sometimes when you touch. You're his best friend.
The only worrisome thing on the list is number two. But it's not necessarily because he doesn't like you that he pullls away--in fact, it may be a sign he's aware of your body. A good idea for checking it out more would be touching him innocently, but obviously on purpose. Try touching his upper right arm (it's the least creepy--I do the testing, you get the results! ) when you're talking sometime. Basically, try to bring touching slowly into your relationship so he accepts it.
Don't be worried that he won't like you because you're his friend--either there's chemistry or not, and if there's chemistry, nothing can change that and you'll always have a chance.
babylovee
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
See if he looks at your mouth; that's a sure sign he likes you. And if he just grazes your arm every now and then. Graze his arm too, see how he reacts. If he pretends it didn't happen and there's no reaction, then he really did feel it and probably liked it. If he pulls away, then I don't know. Have you tried talk about it? Or dropping hints, like talking bout his relationships. x
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