ok so I really like this guy and he is kind of shy and he's always staring at me. but he's never approached me. I want to talk to him the only problem is that all his friends are always surrounding him so thiers no way I can go up to him. and I don't even know what to say. so how can I get him to approach me?
If he's chicken, you probably can't. You'll probably have to walk right up to him and ask him out. Don't worry about his friends. They're on your side.
A good way to start a conversation is you can make a comment on the homework ask him if he understands it and ask him if you could be study partners. Or listen closely to his conversation with his friends. The first thing he mentions that you mildly agree with you could bond over. So if he mentions the killers and you like them go hey you said you like the killers l like them to. What's your favorite song. Bond over friend stuff first. Then after you have been talking with him for a while offer to help him with something weather its carrying books homework even advice. Guys love a girl who does this. Even draw a picture with something cute on it like heart bubbles. Guys realy like girls who do that even though we don't admit it. Its the whole feminin masculin thing. Guys are attracted to sweetness in a girl. Then simply ask him if he would like to get lunch sometime. He will be so flatterd and after a week or so just say I like you. Do you realize how guys dream of a girl saying the words (I like you) but girls so rarely say this. I don't know why . Its like there afraid. You do it and you will be miles ahead of other women on fulfilling the male fantasy of a girl. And they won't be able to compete if you are fufilling the male fantasy. I put annonymous cause what I'm telling you Iis top seacret guy stuff. Point out bunnys and other cute annimals in the park. Draw pictures of rainbows and unicorns.Yes guys love this stuff but how do we say o could you act like a sweet girl and pet bunnies and draw pictures of Unicorns. See the parodox is guys feel gay if they tell you to do this stuff cause its so feminin. But we like femininity in women just as you like masulinity in men. Maybe women don't hate guys watching football as much as they admit. Do these cute little things pick a clover and drop it in his pocket and say that's for you and smile. Yes this is what men fantasize about. Never forget it you may not hear it again. But if you ask aguy after you know them they may admit it to you.
I so agree with you.. :D I've been talking to this guy, and we're friends, welll, close friends :) and he addmitted that he does like "girly" stuff. LOL like once he made me listen to this really cute song and told me that if anyone comes in tell them that you played this song. I asked him why ? and he replied " becaue it's gay! " LOL I found it sooooo sweet of him. These are the little things that make me have feelings for him.. like more than a friend :) - 8 days ago
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