So. There's this new guy that's in my computer class and I've known him for about six weeks now. He always leans towards me, puts his hand on top of mine to show me something cool on the computer a lot, he puts his arm over my shoulder, pets my hair, flexes for me, caresses my chin to get my attention, when we talk, his eyes really dilate and zoom in (a friend told me this is a sign), and whenever I get mad at him, he makes sure I know he's sorry. Also, one time, I told him he was a little conceited; this ruined his whole day. I also have a math class with him and catch him staring at me a lot. Whenever I hug my really good guy friends (this is common at my school), he just looks at me with a whaat? kind of face, and he randomly joins in conversations I'm having with even with some person (of mainly guys) that he doesn't know.
The trouble is, he has a girlfriend that goes to his old school. Whenever one of his buddies brings her up, he immediately dismisses the matter, and one time, his friend asked him if he was bringing his girlfriend to an event we were all going to and he said umm no why would I do that?
I really am NOT the cheating type, but I do like him, and even though I don't know his girlfriend well, I don't want to hurt her feelings because I wouldn't want to be the person being cheated on.
so does he like me, and if so, what do I do?
BTW, I'm a freshman in high school if that helps make your decision. And, he does have friends that are girls, but doesn't treat them the way he treats me.
hmm it seems that he likes you but you should try and talk to his Girlfriend if you can just to be safe. your a lot more advancing than me I admire you I'm a junior and I haven't gotten past cahtting to the dating part with a girl, but I really have to stop trailing. I'd have to say yah try to contact her and its obvious that he likes you and wants you but be careful it could be dangerous with his girlfriend because it sounds like he's trying to seperate from her and whether on purpose or not he could be drawing you into the crossfire. do look though at the fact that while they aren't common place yet there's a life style that relationally support more than one person however its more mainstream and conformed than hippis philosophies were and isn't the seperate from society thing it just supports mor than one person. determine if this is what him and you are ok with and this could also be an option
I just I just splitoff onto an unrelated subject again didn't I?
He definitely seems to like you but it seems kind of shady how he treats his girlfriend. It's up to you really, if you feel that he will treat you better then how he's treating his current girlfriend then go for it. Just make sure that he isn't doing this to other girls. Good luck!
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