Well lets just call him Manuel. I had never really talked to him since September even though we have been in the same small school since Freshman year(we are Seniors now). Anyway we both had to take some classes after school(for SATs and all that jazz) and we started talking. And I mean when we talk it is sort of weird like we talk and then we just stop, then do it all over again. But like he told me all this stuff about him that just really surprised me because that is not how he acts around his friends, for example he told me how he thinks he is an old man in the way he thinks and how he listens to love songs a lot, which was sort of unexpected.
His body language is weird. Like sometimes we briefly touch legs or arms or whatever and the contact would last longer than if it were someone else but sort of a shorter time than what would be considered "flirty".
And he has a reputation for flirting with everyone but I do not know what to think, I mean he acts very different around me, still flirty but sort of reserved at the same time.
We texted a couple of times but nothing serious. Since today was the SAT I texted him to wish him good luck, but he did not reply. And we did not talk at all yesterday, but I think he is mad at me because of what happened on Thursday.
On Thursday we were at an after school activity and we both arrived late(we went from school to the place together) and so we sat together. Neither one of us had the class material so we started doing other homework, and he was sitting close to me(like he had a choice) and he would have his leg close to mine but then when mine got close he would pull it away, then bring it back when I sort of shifted. Anyway towards the end of class we were split up and I went to sit with some girls in the front row; he was in the second row diagonally behind me. The girls then ask me if we were dating because apparently 'we have good chemistry together' so then we start talking about him(I do not think he heard anything because I was whispering) but then one of the girls says his name and asks if all the guys at my school are as good looking as he is, I just said "Do not come to my school hoping for a hot prom date". Then after class he seemed sort of. weird, he did not talk to me on the way home(his father was driving us) and then when I said goodbye he sat up and acted like nothing had happened when he was telling me goodbye.
The next day we did not talk and then the whole not replying to my text thing.
Could some one please tell me what is going on? Does he like me or does he not?
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Alright could some one please tell me how to handle this situation? What should I do?
Should I just give him some space? Should I try texting him again(I do not want to be clingy though)?
crap some of that sounds eerily similiar to me but this is pretty cryptic. hmm well I myself get embarassed because I have this subconcious leg thing were it moves and gets close to other people's legs without me noticing and it takes until someone moves for me to notice that I'm doing that. however I start doing that without thinking once that happens without thinking.
I am reserved well thought out and the love song person when alone but when I;m with someone else and especially in groupd, admittedly only a little bit with two people and not at all with one, this new person who is socially awkward but can't shutup and says stuff without thinking resulting in problems. however after the fact If something awkward in regards to something said or done happened I would shutup and say nothing in order to avoid problems.
Another thing I hardly check my texts and and voicemail that could be what's happening
any ways that's what I see that's similiar to me and that's how I think so that's probably what he might be thinking was that helpful at all.
Patience is a virtue there's not much you cam do but bluntly ask him our else wait. Bluntness is really really embarassing but I would bet it would work, need to guess though because I'm to shy 4 that but bluntness is the best route
i think he is a bit shy and a bit scared how about you feel about him. what happened doesn't really seem liek soemthing that would hurt a guy . keep us updated if he starts talking. but maybe he has no credit?
hmmm__pretty weird _men are weird its not only him . He likes you proof of this is he tells you he listens to love songs he assumes you like that and tries to impress u. Secondly he flirts in a different manner with you . And this can mean he doesn't want you to think of him as a flirt and nothing more __ and about the touching (can't really explain that to ya) he probably gets that shock when you touch and it might be painful for him to hold himself from ripping your clothes off.
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