Some people think that this guy likes me, but I am not quite sure. I want to let him know, but I am to afraid that in reality he doesn't like me.
Update: okay. I have tried to offer to help him. but still nothing.
11 months ago
Update: Help him write a short paragraph for Spanish class. I know him through that class. Well, I have seen him before, but we started talking because of the class. I don't have his contact information. I only have him as a friend on hi5. (kinda like facebook)
11 months ago
Update: He is always working all the time. The only time he has time to "hang out" is on weekends. He told me that he was on call even then. There is also the whole thing that finals are next week. I don't want to lose him. He helps me without even knowing it.
11 months ago
There is a thing you can do if you are brave that can totaly work on a guy because its a double turn on. And I think it will work. Guys like girls who show an interest and girls who think we are special. Use this line I would like to do something with you followed by his name. Smile and touch his shoulder. Don't touch his hand touch his shoulder. Ok what this does is its a total flirt guys love this. You are showing your feelings which guy realy appreciate because we hate having to guess when women are into us all the time. That's turn on number 1. By saying his first name at the end of the sentence you are singling him out as a special guy and almost saying I picked you. Think of how you feel when guys use your first name as they talk to you. Hey karen what's up hey karen how was your week. Yes this is a flirt .that's turn on number 2. Ok and by smiling you are not only showing your genuine but that you are a happy person that's turn on number 3. And by touching his shoulder you are saying that you can feel safe with me I'm kind and caring I'm not going to screw you over. Guys like girls who are caring and we like girls who arnt going to screw us over at some point. That's turn on number 4 so you are turning him on in 4 different ways. And if you are nervous he will think that's cute. Do all this and you can get this guy to like you even if he is not totaly into you now. Cause you will have just turned him on in 4 different areas. And he will love it!
If you're worried, just ease into. The first step is to get his contact information, and the next step I think is to hang out with him, to spend time, maybe get something to eat. You don't to make it "official" or say it's a date, just spend time together. If things go well, I'm pretty sure a relationship will naturally form.
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