My boyfriends introduced me at his best friend, At first meet we were so cool, nothing special, he was like a friend to me also, I did not think that it could be more, then one day, I start noticing him being aloof from me, and always trying to avoid me, and doesn't wanna talk to me, he just smile every time he sees me, I never flirted with this guy. My Boyfriend doesn't know what happening between us. One night we meet at house party, and didn't eve talk to me again... and there was a moment that I caught him staring at me, a stare like there was a meaning , so I smiled. I received nothing from him, he did not smile, he was just looking at me, I couldn't take any longer so I gave up first. Then he always around where I am but he never say anything... Eveytime I look at him, he stare and look away... I tod my boyfriend I'm going outside to smoke, he stayed inside,while smoking outside alone, I notice his Best friend went on his car, I saw him looking at me, but I ignore him at went to the backyard oth the house but I was surprise when he followed me... Fist he smile and asked for a cigarette, I offer him also the lighter and there was a long silence, He stared again and smile... when I finised mine, I told him Iam going inside... but he grabbed my shoulder and kissed me. I was trembling and don't know what to do... i pushed him away and run inside... When I got home, I felt that I kinda like his kiss...
Technically you didn't cheat on him because he basically forced it on you. Now you need to decide if you want to break up with your current boyfriend and go out with this new guy. Something tells me ditching your current guy for this new one after one kiss would be a colossally stupid thing to do. I think you owe your boyfriend the truth about what happened, because if I were him I'd be pretty pissed if my best friend made moves on my girlfriend.
Wow, that's actually somewhat romantic xD Sorry, I'm a sucker for passionate, unexpected kisses.
You did not cheat on your boyfriend because this new guy was the one who kissed you. Now you might just feel like you liked the kiss and everything that came with it [like the excitement] because you've never really talked to this guy and it's like a stranger kissing you.
When you haven't kissed anyone else but your boyfriend for awhile, it could get an excitement going. All you have to decided is whether to break up with your boyfriend and try to date this guy.
BUT I don't think you should jump to conclusions with this other guy because your not sure what his intentions are. He could be just in for the excitement.
Of course you would like it, it was exciting and thrilling. Could it lead to a relationship - I doubt it. Why would you want to be with someone who would cheat on his best friend? I don't think you're cheating and I don't think it was bad to enjoy the moment - but I also don't think you should expect anything to come from this. The whole mysterious bad boy persona is cool, but it rarely turns out to be anything more than just plain lust. I think if you want to explore what could come from this (a mistake in my opinion), you should break up with your boyfriend first. You take a chance of losing them both - because some men see taken women as a challenge or something to compete for - which could very well be what he was doing. But you aren't cheating on him THIS TIME, I would hope you steer clear from him for now on, and keep it that way. Good luck.
Yeah you are right, so now Everytime my Boyfriend invites me to a night out or a party with his bestfriend, I ddnt want to go... I always say that I'm sick and everything so I can't go with them..but breaking up, I think I can't do that. I'm scared to lose him.. - 10 months ago
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