How Much Confidence?

They get a little defensive not a lot. And they do assume that they are players.

Confidence is sexy. We just assume you have experience.

Confidence is hot, but sometimes its intimidating when a guy has a lot of confidence and it can be annoying when guys get cocky. I consider guys cocky when they make stupid remarks like "I can get her any time I want. She's obsessed with me" or something of the sort. As long as your sweet to your girlfriends and don't have a girl like 2 days after you broke up with your last one, you won't be considered a player.

Hey confidence is a good good thing because I know at least to me someone being confident in themselves and what they do . As long as it isn't a cocky full of yourself thing then its good and it doesn't make your a player just because your confident. Now yes a lo of "players" are confident but if you are also a good guy and you believe in real relationships and treating ppl with care then you won't be a player you will just be a confident guy. Confidence in a person can show a girl that you are dedicated and that you know who you are and people that know who they are are the ones to being relationships with. Confidence wouldn't make me defensive other things would and they could have that trait as well but it isn't just that that would make me feel that way.

I think there is a big difference between confidence and arrogance, and most people can tell the difference. Nobody likes someone being arrogant! You can never have too much self-confidence; that's just believing in yourself. Being arrogant is showing no feelings for anyone else, and totally disregarding others and their feelings!

Hey man at least you've got confidence! I act strange around girls I like and suffer from what I like to call "Diarrhea of the Mouth", I stutter and can't get out what I want to say!