Do guys always do this?

No offense, but my first impression is that he doesn't like you in that way. He's fine with normal, friendly conversation, but brushes you off when you make it more personal. That seems like a sign that he's not interested in more than friendship.

He might feel like your DEPENDING on him. some guys like that, some guys hate it. you don't need him. what you said " who will I talk to " was definitely not a comment to let out. you basically just said to him " damm you're leaving I need you to talk to me, so that I can feel good, and I have no one else to talk to because no one else likes me, and I have no social life, and I need your approval " guys see this as a weakness. like ohh my god if I get with this girl I'll never get to hang out with my boys, or do anything alone without her whining. this is not the image you want to display to him. you want to make sure he knows you'll miss him, but you can stand to live without him, he's not your universe. because YOU are your own universe, and you don't need anybody to validate that because your a confident person with high self esteem... right ?

Well yes its sad to say but some guys do this..Some don't even notice so they don't stop..Or they just act stupid and pretend that they can't see what they are doing.But maybe your being too.....sweet.In other words your being like a puppy that can't let go of her owner.Which I know that your not dating but it sounds like if that's what you want. Next time he acts like that shut his ass up by saying something that he won't like.. Play the same game that he's playing and then he might get it.And if he is smart to see what your saying then he'll talk to you. But if he doesn't then just let go of him.Cause right know you just gave him the "I need a MAN in my life to breath" which is not right cause no girl should feel like this. We could be independent woman just like men. So don't let it bug you and don't kiss his ass.Make him kiss yours.Make him feel the way that you feel..For example when he comes back and if he wants to talk to you or tries to aproach you then either walk away and pretend that you didn't see him or pretend not to notice him.That way you'll get him to wonder whats wrong..But if he doesn't do anything about it then move on!!That's a sing that he doesn't like you as a girlfriend..Which you should of caught as soon as he said"I don't care."To me that's enough to say everything... don't you think?Well hope you put your Bitchy shoes on!And don't worry about him feeling bad.Sorry if you don't like my advise but I'm just telling you how I see it.Hope you don't get mad.

I agree with actionfigure23, he probably thinks you are being too codependent. Just back off for awhile and see how he treats you. He might think that you like him, and doesn't want to give you the wrong impression, therefore he acts that way. If it is REALLY bugging you then sit down with him and ask him whats up. But this could backfire on you and make him feel like he is being put on the spot and shut down even further.