I love it when my guy just holds me and kisses the top of my head, it makes me feel so safe and loved. And yes, chivalry is always good. if you're looking for more of a flirting thing...i love it when he just looks at me and smiles, as if I'm the only person in the world...
lol I would love a guy to smile when he's talking to me, um and yeah hold the door -that so cute and talk to me - I like guys who are confident and know what they're doing, yet they are shy at the same time at times - like I think if he's balanced and he is the one to initiate conversation and he tends to spend more time with me -I'll definitely notice him
Chivalry is nice (though some girls get defensive and think that you think they can't do anything themselves), holding doors is fun, be yourself, complement her (be truthful), say beautiful over sexy etc, smile, hugs defiantly. It really depends a lot on the girl *shrugs* one thing I like about my boyfriend (even before he was my boyfriend) was that I can be silly around him and he is silly right back.
Totally, if she wants you to carry something heavy, and you're able to, then ur gonna get noticed by her...girls don't forget to compliment our arms etc... as well as thank us, afterwards - More than a year ago
One of the most romantic things a guy can do is give a mix cd, great suggestion - More than a year ago
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I haven't ever gotten one from a guy, but I got one for a birthday gift when I turned 14, and it's still, by far, one of the best gifts I've ever gotten. - More than a year ago
Make her laugh. That pretty much always works. Remember that chivalry is NOT dead, and that roses are kind of overrated. Some girls like roses, but never be afraid to give her a "wildflower" bouquet. If you are truly interested in her, don't be all over some other girl trying the same tricks on her. Compliments are good, but don't cross the line into butt-kissery. Haha. Be yourself, and be original. :)
Compliment her if she did something to her hair or changed something about her appearance. I always think it's really nice when a guy notices the small details.
Making compliments about appearance, instant noticing, girls put a lot into their clothes, and how they present themselves, not only when getting a guys attention, but also things like getting a job...compliment her, and youve just started flirting - More than a year ago
Eye contact and smiling, next to laughter and music, this is probably the best thing you can do, lets them know that you eventually would like to talk to them and that you are friendly...in every sense of the word - More than a year ago
Being yourself....best answer of them all, if a girl can tell that you're being "fake" or trying to be something you're not...youre done right away, about as fast as lying to her, kudos on this answer - More than a year ago
a gurl likes when you give her a rose it doesn't have 2 be a special occassion or maybe take a time 2 write sumethin like a poem. a gurl luvs when yu hold her tight betwen ur arms and tell her how much you lub her
Flowers, (and candy on occasion) gifts are one of the best things people in general like. most girls love flowers and if you get them one, they will def. notice you, good answer - More than a year ago
When they make us laugh - it makes us really happy and we love that. Ohh and things like little smiles from across the room - that's really cute, makes us feel special because he is picking us out of the crowd. Err... HUGS! Hugs are lovely and warm and make us feel special and wanted - a long hug means a lot more than a lot of words most of the time. Basically, make us feel special and beautiful and important, we love guys like that - I hope I helped :D
Physical contact, (innocent touching) like hugs, mentioned here, are great, there's nothing more intimate then being touched, especially in sex. it shows ur affectionate, and that you'll be there for her whenever she needs it. good suggestion - More than a year ago
i really like when my guy hold my books, and compliments me, I mean when we are alone, hott and sexy is nice to hear, but he'll surprise me during class when I look at my phone and see an "i love you, you're so beautiful" text, it shows I mean a lot more. i also love it when like we are in public, and my shirt is up a little, or my bra is on my arm, and he'll fix it for me, because he isn't always trying to get some from me and it's respectful
Well I mean more for a single guy, what are some things he can do to get girls to notice him in a positive way. - More than a year ago
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Compliment her on how she looks, or tell her you love qualities about her, like her dedication to something, or her laugh. if you're a nice guy, it shouldn't be too hard for a girl to see that you see her more as a girl, than as a piece of ass. also, if you're walking next to her, and her hand is open, try to hold it, that's always a hint that your interested and its usually something the nice guy does good luck! - More than a year ago
Saying things like "youre beautiful" etc... instead of always being "hot, or sexy" means a lot to a girl... wouldn't you love it if a girl called you handsome, I know I would... sexy is meant for the bed, and hot is just a word we could use for every girl, but when you say beautiful, you're singling her out, she'll love you for that, great suggestion - More than a year ago
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The few paragraphs before the section with the questions are just precursors to the 4 questions I ask/talk about in here. What I am getting at with all this, is why do girls like guys, and why do...
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