Breaking the ice with her.

There are a number of approaches you can do with her.

The first option is the warm up approach. Where you start to build rapport with her, without even talking to her.

So this is when she is out and about with her friends, or you casually walk pass her, make sure to smile and keep assertive/flirty eye contact with her.

You will find that if you want an opportunity to speak to her alone, then it will arise and you have to pay attention to when that opportunity arises and act on it immediately.

Now this is the part where I have to break it to you. You are going to have to approach her. There is like a 1% chance that she will come up and talk to you, so to take this situation into your own hands then you are going to have to make the first move.

The most important thing to remember is to not be too attached to the outcome. When you approach her, make sure that you are just there to have a brief conversation with her and leave her wanting more.

Your first approach should be like a trailer to a 2 hour movie. No talking about deep and meaningful things or heavy topics. She should not know about your mother's madien name by the time you have finished having your first conversation with her.

You aim is to make her feel good when she is interacting with you. Make her laugh, keep it causal and make sure to be the one that leaves the conversation first.

Things you can talk about in your approach can be things happening in your immediate environment, something happening in school or an event that you both will be attending.

I would hesitate on giving you something to say because I don't believe in pick up lines or any of that stuff. They can work, but you have to be able to pull it off with the right attitude. Do and say something that comes naturally to you.

And my last bit of advice would be, to act immediately on the urge to talk to her. Don't think about approaching her 10 minutes before you actually do. That is more than enough time to totally throw you completely off your game and seem more nervous, shy and awkward than if you were you walk straight up to her and introduce yourself to her.

And last but not least, look if you do approach her and totally bomb, well now you know exactly what does and doesn't work, so you are better off than when you started.

Let the learning begin =)

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i say wink at her when you pass her.
I know this sounds weird but winking at girls can always prove wether they're interested.
Either she will smile or giggle or she will look at you weirdly,
and by the way it sounds, she will smile.

And the whole approach her with friends or not.


Wait till she's alone, because she will tell you what SHE thinks, not what she thinks her FRIENDS want to hear.

Hope I've helped.

hm...interesting situation, id suggest something like what the girl before me said, just keep smiling at her every time you see her, say hi, maybe make slightly/subtlly flirtatious comments...and in class when you catch her staring at you, let her, maybe er..hm..get her eye contact and smile, hold her in your gaze...let her catch you staring at her..little stuff like that, or if you wanna be a bit more obvious, next time you move seats in class choose to sit next to her, and be all "hey, so I like your smile, mind me sittin here?"...lol...i hope I helped out!

when you guys are in the hallway just cassually say hi and smile and walk away do this for a while and then she'll start to notice you. AT lunch or when she is by her locker talk to her about your guys commone intrest or you could just go over to her house when hanging out with her little brother and then you guys will get to know each other wayyy faster.