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I really need guys to help. I like him, should I let him go?

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(Age:25 to 29) When: 11 months ago

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It's a bit long, so I met a guy nine years ago in high school and we became good friends. He had a crush on me and I had one on him. He told me he really liked me, but I had to move and we didn't see each other anymore. And we stopped talking. We saw each other a couple of times threw the years but I either had a boyfriend or he had a girlfriend. I am divorced and I have three kids now.

So we saw each other from far away and just stood and stared.He just jumped up from the chair he was sitting on and ran towards me, jumping over stuff. Well we talked and he gave me his number. So
after that we talked and texted all day. We decided to go out. We met and had so much fun,played games and we couldn't stop looking at each other.

He told me how much he has thought of me all of these years. He said he has seen me a couple of times but didn't know what to do. He said we should have been together and had kids. So we hung out a couple of times and talked more and we have so much in
common. We had sex and he told me I made him feel like he was 17 again. And he feels good inside when he's with me. So the way he was acting showed me he liked me.

He lives in another state and visits his family every two to three weeks if he can and we get together. He always says he wants to
see me. I have met friends of his who told me he is very shy and he's a nice guy. That he talks about me all day at work. He shows my pic to his friends and people at work. That he is scared to get hurt. And they tell me he has loved me for a long time.

So after I found all of that out it really showed me he liked me and I really like him, so I told him. I also told him I was scared to get hurt
and I want to spend more time together. And he told me the same. He has also even told me he would be a good dad. I take that as a hint.

Now he has done some things that have me confused and thinking that I should stop talking to him. He was in town and I made plans for my kids to be with my ex. And he knew that but didn't really ask me if I wanted to do anything. Then he told me he was going to be with his friends, so I went out with mine and we didn't see each
other that whole weekend. Then one day he called me and was telling me about one of his friends who got drunk and told him she loved him and he even sent me a pic of her so I can see who she is. He told me he didn't like her that way. They are just friends. We talk and text during the week even at work, but most weekends we don't talk or not one text. When he's in town I always have to tell him when and where I want to see him. So I don't even know if I'm bugging him or what's going on. If I ask him all he says is don't worry about it, I do like you. So I really need you guys to tell me what you
think. He was really into me at first and now I feel like he doesn't want me. And I think that maybe he tells me he likes me because he's scared that I won't be his friend anymore. I can't just be friends anymore.What do you think?


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Paullus When: 11 months ago

Interesting story. He seemed to be into you at the beginning. And he's not a player, or likes to play games so this whole thing is a little confusing.

From my perspective I would like to have my own kids and not raise someone elses and that alone would be enough reason for me not to be with someone. But that's just me.

you've done everything you can to bring him close to you and if he doesn't respond then that was his choice not yours. I see you are a mature woman and understands how things can be dealt with. I suggest you sit down with him and have a deep talk about what's going on. That is the only way you will find the answers you are looking for, not in this website. Best of luck I hope all ends well.

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