I know this question has been asked a lot, but here's my story.
I work with this guy who I recently started talking to about a month ago. Started off talking on FB, then msn and every once in a while text messages. Another friend from work and I, went to watch his band play one night and then a few days later he invited me to watch his band practice, and then we went for coffee a week after that. We talk pretty much every day. Mostly through FB because I feel like a pest messaging him on msn,I've let him know that I like chattin with him, and that I think he is super cool and cute. But now I don't know where to go from here. He has been super stressed out lately and sick, so it has been kind of hard to talk to him. I'd like to hang out with him again but I don't want to seem pushy. And I don't know how to blatantly let him know I am interested in him besides just saying "hey, I like you. " I'm not good with words, I wouldn't even begin to know how to tell him I am interested in him. I would have assumed telling him he's cute and whatnot would be obvious, but he always replies saying that he isn't cute and that I made him blush. I'm pretty shy, and get embarrassed easily so when we were out for coffee I giggled a lot! I don't know if I blew my chances that night or what.
It sounds like he likes you if he invited you to see the band practice. The problem here (if there is one) may be that he likes you, but not the way you're flirting. Shy girls like us tend to think that flirting means being giggly, and acting in a way that would be bitchy and obnoxious if it weren't flirting. That confuses the heck out of guys who like the shy.
Has he been stressed out lately? That might actually help you. Sweetly ask him what's wrong. If he says 'nothing,' say something like, "Oh. Well, you looked stressed. I wanted to make sure nothing was going bad for you. " If he says something, ask him a question about his answer. Keep going like that til you've made a conversation. That kind of sweet, caring, not ostentatious flirting is probably what made him like you in the first place.
To let him like you, you might want to use body language. Lean towards him when you talk, tilt your head and put one hand on the back of your neck to show you're listening, copy his position when he's sitting. Talk to him as much as you can so he has a chance to realize you're acting like you like him.
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