How do I flirt but respect myself @ the same time ?

Well first off the flirting you do can be dangerous. You could come across the wrong guy, flirt with him and end up hurt due to him thinking you are a tease and wanting more. I am sorry to be so blunt but that kind of teasing can get you raped, killed, kidnapped or physically hurt. I realize these are extremes but it does happen.
The fact that you said, "i need more then one dose a day" tells me that you like the attention. It's an ego boost isn't it? As pretty as you know you are I still think you have some self esteem issues. You like the power of knowing you can seduce and entice guys. How do you stop this? Work on those issues. Realize that having that ability is great but it is not something that should be so compulsive. Flirting is fun, yes, but you have got to do it in a safe and tasteful way. Don't allow a guy to grab your booty (it does suggest you could be a harlot). Talking to a guy dirty? Reserve that for the one you're with. Instead wow them with being your amazing self nix the sexy talk, the enticing looks and the suggestive teasing.

Just because you like talking dirty and flirting DOES NOT mean you are a slut. You are a girl with a normal sex drive, which so many girls your age try to hide and deny because they were taught all this nonsense about not being a proper "lady". Go ahead and have fun! But use your head, too - don't get pressured into situations that you do not feel comfortable in and don't lead guys on to make them think something physical is going to occur when that is not your intent. Let them know you're just having a good time and that's all. If you want it to go farther, then you can let them know that. Everyone flirts - so enjoy!

It's the difference between being fun (teasing with boundaries) and lying (teasing, tempting, and implying false intentions.)

I have the dirtiest sexual banter with all of my female friends, but I NEVER let it escalate to physical touch, and they ALWAYS know I'm kidding.

Perhaps you're feeling bad because you're acting a specific way only because of the attention it's giving you from guys... while also making you feel guilty.

The attention boys give in hopes of sexual satisfaction can feel very unsatisfying, hollow, and sometimes pretty gross.

Take a moment (this is what separates the girls from the women) to consider WHY you need this attention from these guys. Do you feel like you're friends get more attention than you, and using your sexuality evens the playing field? Perhaps you feel powerful being able to influence the emotions of young men so easily? Perhaps you simply feel un-pretty and getting lots of attention helps fill that hole? I have don't know.

Heal what you're missing inside, and you're outside behaviors will change automatically.

I wish you the breast of luck,
~ Robby

Well it seems like you just like the attention. If you aren't doing things with all these guys then there is no reason to have a bad image of yourself. They probably don't think you're a slut, just a tease. Its up to you if you want them to think that about you. If you don't like it, stop flirting.

well first of all don't let any guy grab if your not serious because if you let him he will absoltuly never never never respect you and he will think your a tramp so stop that right now.

first thing you should know is try not to flirt with guys your not interested in because this is just a let let down for guys and can be a heart breaker.

really just be yourself flirt but don't tie anything sexual in until you really know the guy .

do stuff like push him put your hand on his back or shoulder or tell him he'ss looking good it will install every bit of confidence in him and he will flirt with you better too.

try to think about what the guy is feeling as you flirt, if you make him feel like you want him, he's gonna go for you, whether you like him or not...and of course that's not good...so next time you're flirting, try toning it down a little, and remember what it does to us

how about flirting and respecting the guys, as well?

Have a friend help you out and when she thinks ur going too far, make her pull you away and make sure she will pull you a way no matter how much you say no cause you need to learn how to walk before you can run.

Just tone it down with the sexual stuff as much as you can. You can flirt without everything being dirty.

Could you wear a little less for us? Your about on cell phone mirror pic away from being p*ssed on by R Kelly girl.

wont get much respect with a profile pic like that.

say to guys I respect myself and love myself a lot, but I have a need, and that need is called hornyness, SO I desperately want to f*** u
end of story, you ll be the most respected ever

They're are ways to be sexy and ways to be slutty. You can be classy and not sassy. You should kno the difference between classy and trashy. I honestly don't think that anything anyone tells you can make a differerence in what you do daily. I think that you are going to have ask yourself if that's really what you want.
You can say that you want to be classy, but actually doing it is a completely different side of the pancake.
TO be honest I like to flirt, but I NEVER let any guy disrespect me in any way possible. If that's grabbing the butt, or the breasts, or talking dirty. YOu have to want to have respect for yourself so others can follow.
And it could mean that you are turing into something that you don't wana be.
YOu can be a great girl. But if you come on to guys and the flirty side of you is all they see, then that is all they are going to take you for.
So let them kno off hand that you are a good girl with just a wild side that you tend to let out NOT and I mean NOT so often so they won't get involved with you just to see said side.
Hope this helps.! Good luck girl.! Keep it CLASSY.!
GUYS LOVE AND APPRECIATE CLASSY SELF CONFIDENT AND RESPECTFUL GIRLS.!

dont talk dirty, just smile and make CLEAN convo

Shlei3 is right, you need to be really careful. Try to be playful instead, ruffle his hair and make fun of him a little- obviously don't insult him. Play with your hair, smile and make eye contact with him. You'll be much happier knowing you can get a guy's attention without acting like that.