A couple of days ago I met a guy on a 3 1/2 hour flight back home. Initially I sat down and he sarcastically remarked, "too bad your not a 300 pound fat man", anyways, I sarcastically replied, "I just might morph into one midway through flight". Anyways, I whipped out my book and he whipped out his, but I could tell he wanted to talk to me as he looked over at me a few times. 20 minutes into the flight I decided to talk to him. We talked through the entire flight about various topics: online dating, religion, art,travel,fitness, education, etc. He remarked that he wouldn't be back in my town until October (he travels for work), we exchanged names, I figured that he would ask me for my number since he mentioned that I had a very beautiful name, seemed really passionate about my education, and was the most interesting person he had ever talked to on an airplane ride home. A few times I mentioned to him that he really didn't need to talk to me if he really didn't want to (I thought I was probably annoying him with all my banter), he replied that he didn't mind and I should mind either. We had a little break in conversation until he started talking to me again. This time he started it up, so I knew he was interested in chatting with me. Anyways, I am not sure how to track him down. Or whether I should. He did mention where and when he would be back in town next. Why would he do this? Why not just ask for my number or contact info?
He could have figured that it wouldn't lead to anything, so why take the time. Maybe he's in a serious relationship. Maybe he's dying and didn't want to break your heart. It honestly could be a lot of reasons. But if he is single and he liked you, then he dropped the ball. But at the same time, if things were really going that well, you could have pushed towards that, like maybe suggesting that you two hang out.
Sometimes we as guys are stupid and don't realize that a girl is interested in us, so we figure why bother. If you know that we like you, and you like us, then there is nothing wrong with you taking the next step. I'm not sure why it always has to be the guy. If he's receiving mixed signals and has no clue what's going on, but you do, why miss out on the chance with a good guy because you're too proud to ask for his number.
He didn't ask for your contact info simply because he didn't know how. After all, he kept looking at you a few times, and it was you the one that had to make the move. If he had 'game' he would have been the one that would have started the whole conversation, but he didn't. So of course, is only obvious he didn't know how to seal the deal of getting your contact info. If you know where and when he will be and you really want to talk to him, then I suppose you can be at that location and hope he shows up.
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