So basically there's this girl that's a year younger than me and I've known her for about 2 years. At first we casually talked to each other. About a few months ago we started talking on the phone for like an hour at a time almost everyday. Then about a month or so after that there was a big fall out between her and another one of my friends which resulted in our phone conversations ending. So that was in October and by mid November we were casually talking again(in school, text messaging, instant messaging etc. ). So what I want to know is how to get back to the way things were before the "fight"
The best way to reconcile this friendship if you really want to is to let bygones be bygones with her. Unless she caused the fallout by doing something unforgivably cruel to your friend, you can basically let the past be behind you, and don't bring it up.
Me and a girlfriend of mine had our relationship threatened when a big nasty love triangle shot up between a couple of my best guy friends and one of her best girl friends, that basically ended up being a -lot- of lying, cheating, and manipulation being shot every which way, and me and my girlfriend getting caught in the crossfire.
The only way we managed to make it work is we realized that our discrepancy wasn't with each other but with the other less thoughtless people we just happened to be friends with and by the nature of our friendship, sided with them. As such we let it lay, because it had no direct bearing on our relationship unless we invited it to do so.
It works the same pretty much with your friend. There may be drama between her and this other person, but that doesn't directly effect you, and shouldn't, unless you ask it to.
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