So I had this really bad dream last night. Background check: my boyfriend and I broke up in january, but we still talk on the phone all the time. He lives 4 hours away and I still love him. Granted, I have gotten drunk and have slept with people while we've been broken up. But in my dream, I was talking to him on the phone, and he told me about how he had sex with someone he works with and I started balling my eyes out. Meanwhile, my sister, bestfriend and my sister's boyfriend were yelling at me and chasing me around while I tried hidding from them so I could talk to him. I kept asking him if he loved her and he said no. I then asked him if he loved me and why he would sleep with someone else? The whole time I'm crying and hiding from my sister. So, wtf does this mean? Does it mean if I still love him? I shouldn't sleep with other people(which is a very good point). Does it mean he's going to sleep with someone and I'm going to cry about it, or does it mean I'm just scared he will, and now, because of my crazy dream, I know how he felt, and how I will feel if this ever happens?
Every time you sleep with someone you give a part of yourself with that person and you create an unseen bond (marriage). If you slept with your x-boyfriend and other people thereafter you tear the bond to pieces resulting in extreme inner pain and tumults emotionally. It is that you both have this bond and could connect in some way through dreams. Sleeping around is very unhealthy for your soul, and later destroys all dignity and sense of belonging even if you may think differently.
I think you answered your own question in the last 3 lines, they all seem true, except the part of where he will sleep with someone else.
Maybe you're feeling a bit guilty about sleeping with other people. Maybe you're not ready to move on yet. Maybe he does fell saddened by you sleeping with other guys (if he knows).
Give yourself some time and don't worry too much about dreams. I've had some crazy ones myself!
simplyme01
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
It's showing you how he felt and it opened your eyes to how you would feel if he did that to you. maybe you miss him? and you need time to think. You wouldn't worry about it if you didn't have doubts.
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