About 5 years ago a friend of me and my wife's passed away. She was a truly good friend and a great person. She is still nearly missed to this day. I never had any sexual feelings toward her, I couldn't. Think of her that way. She was too good of a friend. Well here is the part I don't get. My wife and I were making love and for that period of time when you are done until you pull out. I saw this friend in front of me clear as day. That moment is engraved into my memory forever. I can tell you the exact spot where it happened. It seemed like she was there forever and I felt frozen. I just remember getting a real warm feeling that she was ok. I was completely freaked out, my heart was racing, like I just saw a ghost. Of course I could not tell my wife what had just happened, I did not want her to think I was thinking of our deceased friend. I don't know what to make of it. Just something that has been bottled up for some time and needed to tell someone. Thanks for listening.
Maybe it was your subconscious playing. The loving feeling you get from after sex with your wife probably got mixed up with the sexual feeling that you *never* had for the friend, and thus when the blood flow of your brain was changing, the subconscious plays out that you wished everything was alright for her.
Remember, men and women can never be purely friends.
The real answer you would get is probably from a psychologist.
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