We were together for about 6 months. Both of us are way past 40 years old. And spent a lot of time together. I noticed that he stopped calling me as often as he use to. Or, he would say that he would call me back, Yet, I was calling him back. When it really dawned on me that he was not coming over as often or returning my call at least by the next day. I began to panic.realizing that something was definitely wrong. I was able to have a long conversation with him (phone) and he checked me on a few things that bothered him in the relationship. When I thought that I was losing him, my heart sank. I asked him if he was breaking up with me. He said, “Of course not, you know I''m in love with you”. Our phone conversation ended with him professing his love for me, telling me that I am the best thing that ever happened to him, and that he has never felt this way someone before. He said, that we both should get serious and see where the love that we had for one another would take us. (He has always told me that he love me. It took me a little longer.) I agreed with him and was very excited that we cleared the air and both of us were moving in the same direction. We agree to meet two days later and I never heard from him again. He just stopped calling or returning my phone calls. It has been 3 weeks and no contact. Yes, he is still alive, I know because I called his job. Please help me understand why he did it? I'm trying to move on,but this one hurt.
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When: 5 months ago
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