Do men really love?

In my opinion I would say yes when he does say it he does mean it, its just sometimes when we get into relationships the girls become unfaithful which is one of the main factors as to why we do not like to be in a commitment. I'm not saying you are, but that's how I believe it is when it comes to that and the porn thing unless it starts to ruin your relationship/marriage its not a big deal I mean all guys have looked at porn there's not one guy in here that says he hasn't watched it

Let me clue you in. Males and Females love. Also some males and females say they love and they don't. There is no gendered love. All human beings are capable of truly loving.

Not everyone that watches porno has a problem, it seems to me that you may have the problem which, is insecurity. I am not being mean we all suffer with insecurity at times in our lives.

Men are much more visually and physically. It seems to me that it is a turn-on for your boyfriend and shouldn't be denied watching a porno. It is different if is all he does and he put that before everything else in his life. When people have unhealthy priorities then we need to question whether or not we should be marrying someone like this.

If a person excessively drinks, gambles, drugs or watches porno it is called an addiction and addictions take a long time to get under control, some people seek recovery from these types of addictions and some never do.

You and your boyfriend need to communicate about this issue and others I am sure before you marry. Communication is a large key to a successful relationship.

You can't just simply disapprove of him watching porno. If he is doing this to excess then I personally would rethink marrying him.!

I have counseled many woman who have husbands/partners who are addicted to porno and these men have a large problem with getting turned on by their wives or just making love the natural way. If you think this is the case, you may want to seek some professional advice.

Marriage should not be taken lightly nor will change him.

When we get into relationships we should never believe that we have the power to change someone, or that if he loves you he will change.

Woman and Men need to accept their differences. Woman are from Venus and Men are from Mars.

Our differences is what attracts us to one another so why would we want to change one another?

If you feel this is something you need to discuss with him, do it civil, in a mature way, and don't bring up 9 other issues. Stick to the subject at hand. Always stick to the subject at hand it's how we successful resolve issues in our relationships.

Good luck and I honestly hope you and your boyfriend can successfully compromise over this issue.

Well porn has nothing to do with love. Don't doubt for a minute that he doesn't love you because he watches porn. It's just something guys do. I have no problem with my men watching porn, never have. Maybe you should try watching it with him sometime, I bet he'd love that. But bottom line don't judge his feelings for you on him watching porn.