What is the best way to break up with him?

why would you go and get pregnant of someone you don't love? I feel bad for the baby. It's not his fault that he/she has irresponsible parents. anyway first of all don't get married or live with him it's for a fact you're not in love but that doesn't mean you take off and keep the baby for yoyourself, it's his baby too you can't keep him away from the child that would be really selfish and maybe later on when the kid askes you about his father what are you going to tell him/her , are you gonna lie to him/her? think about it. You can break up with him but let him know he has the right to visit even though you can't stand him you gotta make the effort it's for everyones good.

That's a really hard situation to be in.
I believe that when you have a baby, it is no longer about you, but what is best for the baby.
But I also believe that is it better to raise a child in a peaceful environment, then in a home where mommy and daddy are constantly at war.
I say, talk to this guy. Do you love him, but just can't stand him? Or are you really tired, and lost all feelings for him?
If you still love him, then maybe you should talk to him, and tell him what's bothering you. Tell him that you and him aren't going to work out if he keeps it up.
If it is totally unresolvable, then you'll have to break up with him and clearly state the reasons.
If it is the second reason and you have no feelings for him anymore, then tell him you can't be with him anymore.
Just because you share a child with him doesn't mean you have to be with him.
But think of what would be best for the child as well.

Just be gentle about it.

" I know we are having a child together but I don't think that our being together is the best thing. I want to work out a partnership so that when the baby is born, everything will be in place. I really appreciate the love you have for me but unfortunately, the only love I have for you is that of a good friend. Let's work together to maintain that friendship for our child."

That's what I would say.

Good luck!

It's good you see he is not for you. What I mean by that is that you are just not staying with him because ur prego. Of course it would be great if you two worked out, but it is always better to be in two separate healthy relationships then have one bad relationship for your child to see! So, you just need to sit down and explain to him you love him and want him to be apart of all this with you and you both should be excited and happy. Reassure him that your not just up and leaving. Then precede to explain why things aren't working with you two. Explain what you have done to make it work and tell him it would just be better if you two were not with one another. I think you get the idea. I don't know details of your relationship so I can't tell you exactly what to say! Just remember for the two of you "it's always better to be in two separate healthy relationships then have one bad relationship for your child to see" Now what matters is your future child : ) Congrats