Why does she do this to me?

your right she doesnt. And sometimes if it happen to me, if I liked someone who I felt was important to me and they said they loved me I'd want to be with them but avoid them because I don't want to be hated by someone important and I don't want to be a disappointment to them

it could be that she has something going on right now and there is a good reason (she is busy or something) why she isn't responding to the text. It is possible she just sees you and "loves" you as a friend. But if you care about her as more than just a friend.then let her know. Ask her how she feels about you and she might just say ur a friend.but sometimes people don trealize their true feelings for someone because we take a lot of things for granted.

She is using you for companionship. She might care about you, but not in the same instance that you probably think. You are there for her, you fill some void, but its one sided. If your cool with being her emotional dumping buddy, then go ahead, but know what it is. She hits you up when she needs you and you are always there. When she doesn't need you, well you get ignored texts. She says don't worry about it because she knows that you will and will offer advice which is what she wants and that is taken care of. See what it is and go from there.

Dude, the best thing you can do is the minute you show up in town, ditch her contact info, give her the big wave, and find a new girl.

You sound too serious and logical to have some immature gal toying with you while she figures out what she wants. The more you stick around, the more comfortable she will be, and the more time she'll take to reach a decision.

Not that you she rush a person in a relationship, but at a certain point they need to consider your feelings when this or similiar issues come up. Because it takes two people to be in a relationship, so both people need to be considered.

Lose her, and get your swing back!

IDK I'm in the same situation your in and everyone tells me to just tell her everything that's on my mind, but if you're like me it's unfortunately much more complicated than just spitting it out if you know what I mean.

if you are bestfriends. I have a best girlfriend that we say we love each other all the time, but its nothing more than saying it to my sister. she obviously don't feel towards you as you do to her. as for telling you her situation, maybe she wants a guys point of view, without being judged. so becareful on how you judge her cause then she may not confide in you anymore. or as much.i think too is that she is starting to realize you like her and don't know how to react, so she don't react at all . opposite sex friendship can be hard because its a bestfriend with boobs. or whatever you wanna call it. so you can catch feelings. so. to me ,. she looks at you as just a friend.