Urgh I need to rant a bit on here, this like the only place I can complain about my problems. I'm 16 years old and yet I feel like I'm 10. My mother is way too overprotective, I can't go out with friends and I can't do this and I can't do that. She always seem to find something to say about it. I've never had a "really" boyfriend maybe that of the "virtual" ones. I'm shy and lack self confidence, I can't never seem to make a guy ever interested in face to face, I'm only able to do so over the internet, they claim I have a great personality and pretty but yet when me meet (when I'm at school only time I can meet with someone) they just get distant, I'm thinking maybe because I'm fat, I'm not fat in the case of overly weight but I'm curvy and got a huge ass which I hate (inherited from my mother). So once again I'm back to the internet dating, there is this guy I like but I don't know, he told me he feels like I'm his personal girl and also he said in the past he had, a lot of girls but trying to get that under control, I told my mother about him but I had to twist a few things around he wants to go out with me, my mother insist that she wants to meet him but I'm not sure if she going to let me go.
I hate my life, I feel like I'm ugly, huge, unloved, not good enough for anyone, never going to fit in, never have real friends, never have a social life, I just feel like I don't belong here.
I want to enjoy my youth but it's hard for me to do so with so many distractions. I have to live up to expectations to graduate from high school because my mother didn't barely go through 7th grade and my father did finish high school but he didn't go to university because he had to take care of his siblings.
I really don't know the reason for this, but I just guess kind of want to clear my mind. I can't talk to anyone in person so if anyone have any thoughts or whatever I would greatly appreciate it.
I want to be able to experience things that 16 years get to do, people in my community thinks I'm weird and anti-social. I get picked on when coming from school they call me names such as fatty or fat ass etc. I hate it.
I've known girls with overprotective parents, but most of them didn't have that problem and a teasing problem.
The truth for many teenagers is simple:
You either have the best teenage years of your life, or you have miserable ones
However, after high school, if you get to go to college and move out on your own, your life will change. There is far more acceptance in the world for people OUTSIDE of high school, so don't lose hope.
I was one of those ones who had miserable high school years too. Well, I'm out, in college, and it's great.
And.as far as the teasing goes.I know this might sound cliche to you but, have you tried losing weight? Some things you might not be able to change, like how your mom is, but your weight is something you control, right? If you get the strength you can try and turn your life around at least in that area.
I hope you can hold on long enough to see high school means nothing once you leave.
I can relate. I am 16 also and have never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. I am shy and I have very little self confidence. I have the same problem with guys too, because I am so shy I don't talk to many people, my dad is very overprotective to me , cause I am/was a bit of a daddys girl and I am the youngest so its even worse. I hate my body and like I said have a low self confidence in myself so I think it shows. School is pretty close to hell for me, I am rather short so I feel like a 5yr old in a world of giants. and I have aniexty dissorders so I am also very anious when I go to school. I just keep telling myself 3 years, 3 years and its over. I know its hard to hear people talking about you or seeing them staring at you. it sucks, but in e few years you could be a sucessful person and they might be working a McDonalds for the rest of there lives. I deal with the same thing I just try to go to school and onyl focus on my school work and try to tune out everyone.
Alright, take a deep breath. I know how you feel. I'm 16 too so I can relate. Not to that extent but my parents keep me tied down as well. Mostly my parents don't want me to make the same mistakes my older sibling did and it pisses me off but I know that they saw the struggles that my sister and brother went through and they don't want to see me going through that too. I'm sure your mom is just trying to help you. Because she is over-protective maybe you should talk to her about it, don't scoff. Really, talk to her, don't yell and get bent out of shape, TALK to her. Don't be immature about it because then that will give her more reason to treat you like a child.
I kind of laughed when you mentioned your "fat ass" because I'll have you know that I have a really big butt too and there is NOTHING wrong with it. Have you ever seen Kim Kardashian? HUGE butt. and there is nothing wrong with it :) Don't be so hard on yourself. Have a positive outlook on life. If you make yourself be happy eventually you really will be happy.
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