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Why would he hurt me like that all of the sudden?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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He liked me before I started liking him. He would tell his friends sexual things about me at the skate park and he would even mouth stuff to me during class. I fell in love with him because I saw his heart. He was really immature and he just wanted to be friends with benefits with me and I wasnt like that. He would poke me playfully and sit next to me and pass notes during class about if I liked him too. I told him I liked him and he would say he sorta/kinda liked me. Then I would say,"Sorta?", and he would tell me a lot. We kept this thing up for almost a year. He wouldn't stop asking me if I wanted to or not. I never gave in and he liked the chase. Sometimes I would ignore him and he would ask if I hated him and then I said no and he would tell me over and over he would change. He was sexual with other girls but he was different with me. He stopped liking those girls after a week and said they were ugly and stuff. He asked me out 3 times throughout the year and when other girls he fooled around with asked him out he would make up excuses about how he couldnt. All of the sudden the new girl came and she was really slutty. He had a crush on her and drifted away from me a little but still flirted with me when she was around. She had a boyfriend and I was upset she was cheating and stealing my crush. I badmouthed my crush with his old friends. One friend told him and blamed me and my crush got mad at me but forgave me. It was this thing were I would start the fight with my crush and he would say he would change and start all over. When the girl he liked became more dominant in his life he started to hurt me and all his humor and love turned to hatred and voilence. He was never like that with me. He cussed me out and hurt me to the point where I came home with tears and bruises. He hung out with the wrong crowd when he was with her. I saw them kiss and I was torn apart. She had a boyfriend! How could he do this to me and how could she be apart of it? My crush never forgave me and now he hates me and says I'm ugly when I used to be hot and stuff to him. He hurts me for no reason and when I say sorry for something I supposedly did he says f*** you. I hate that bitch and I want my crush to forgive me for talking bad about him with his friends so long ago. He said I was trying to brake his friends and him up but I wasnt. I just want peace and he won't forgive me.

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bluexxeyes (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
When A guy wants something and he's just chasing it for so long without any progress in the direction he wants it to go he's going to get bored and when something else shows up that he also wants and he knows that he can get it easier that's what he's going to do. I am kind of confused because you said that you would come home with tears and bruises. Did he hit you? This guy really doesn't seem worth your apology. You have nothing to apologize for and don't let him make you feel like you do. Now talking bad about him with his friends was a bad move becasue they are his friends and you should never disrespect someone like that but at the same time you were mad and everyone makes mistakes once in a while. If you really meant something to this guy then he's going to come back to you. Don't try talking to him or anything like that just ignore him (unless he tries talking to you, then don't ignore him obiously) but just live your life and like I said if you meant anything to him then he'll come back but if not then you know that he wasnt a real friend and you should be proud of yourself for not giving it up. Good job and good luck!
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Question Asker Ahhh I feel better now...i have a new boyfriend and he respects me and tells me I'm beautiful and he would never hurt me. thanks for the help it really opened my eyes to greater men - 5 months ago
Answerer Aww I'm happy for you!! and I'm glad that I could help! - 5 months ago

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sexi-timeouts (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
you might wanna give up on that guy. and just wondering, is he on drugs (?) cause he kinda sounds like he is.
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Question Asker Lol he gets high sometimes so maybe - 5 months ago

 
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It will do you good if you go out there and find somebody who will always like you
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