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My friend wants to sleep with me but I don't want to

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grand-am (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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Hi I'm looking for a answer so I can tell this girl nicely that I don't wanna have intercourse with her. She's 16 years old and I'm 22 and every time I'm there and if we are alone she's always asking me if I wanna have sex with her and I keep telling her, "No, I'm not going to have sex with you" but it's like she really wants to and I don't know what to do about it. I mean this girl is a virgin and I know that for a fact because she has told me many times and so has her mom and I just don't understand why she would wanna lose her virginity with me.Someone please help me, it's to the point where if she doesn't stop asking me I'm just gonna have sex with her so she shuts up but I don't wanna do that cause it's really wrong so please can someone help me out?

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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Why are you hanging around with a 16 year old, if you stated that you'll have sex with her just to keep her quiet then you've already answered your own question, which tells me you think nothing is wrong sleeping with a 16 year old, that's how pervs begin, leave her alone and stay away from her
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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
What is a 22 year old doing hanging around with a 16 year old?
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luvbug (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
The biggest issue here is the fact she is 16. I would explain to her that she is to young and it makes you feel uncomfortable talking about having sex. Stick with your guns most virgins would become attached and then you will have a clingy problem if all else fells perhaps just stay away from her you may have to tell her she don't attract you. Don't give any mixed signs that you may be interested some girls her age think just because you are nice and talk to them that means you want them. Just be very careful how you talk to her >>> GOOD LUCK
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Experience-Babe (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Just tell her that she's to young and that your not the right guy for her.Make it get through her head.If she doesn't then tell her that you simply don't wanna talk to her anymore because she's gonna get you in trouble.And I don't think that you wanna go to jail.So do whats best for both of you.I rather have her get hurt with words that with sex.Besides she's crazy.So just let go of her for a few months or maybe years.Or if possible for ever. I mean it. It's for your own good and also hers
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ladyredbone (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Hook her up with a younger homeboy that you possibly have or tell her momma.
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DeanW That is terrible advice. He's not asking for a way to cause this girl pain or "pimp" her out. - More than a year ago

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ana-er2002 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Yo should hangout wit someone older and make sure you are not alone with her so she won't be tempted to ask you or touch you. Maybe you should get someone her age to take her off your back. Even if she keeps bugging you shouldn't do it so she could stop asking you will feel bad about doing it in the future.
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sassycowchick-17 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Hmm I'm 18 and my last boyfriend was 22 but it didn't work cause he hung himself. But he was a total sweetie. But that girl you're hanging with is crazy I mean 16 and 22 I wasn't good in school so I don't know what the age difference is but it just isn't normal.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I'd say either try and get off the subject of that or you could give her a bit of licking or shoving of the finger in her vagina would satisfy her sexual needs hopefully she won't ask for more.
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beast69e (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
She probably fells as though you are worth giving it up to...meaning she probably likes you a great deal...but what you have to realize is that having sex with her will change everything. She'll start to think you're a couple and you also have to think about the possibility of jail time...ask her why she wants to do it with you and then tell her that you're afraid to and if she does like you to wait for you.
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wantitallthetime (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
She's a friend? Having sex just to have sex, with a friend is not cool. She must not value your friendship as much as you value hers. Maybe she likes you more than a friend. Regardless....don't do it just to shut her up. You'll lose any type of friendship you have. It will be in the way when you have a serious girlfriend or she has a serious boyfriend. Take that advice for what it's worth.
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Stop hanging out with this girl. What could a 22 year old be wanting to hang out with a 16 year old for unless you were hoping that something will accidentally happen and so you want have to feel guilty about causing it?

Your good for not having sex with her, and make sure you don't as that would be a straight ticket to jail. Just stop hanging out with her, b/c you are in a very dangerous situation, you may only be able to say no so many times.

Not even that, if this girl goes crazy, she might say that you forced yourself on her, and that can be very hard to convince people that it didn't happen (her word against yours).

Be smart here, and hang out with girls your age.
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DeanW No longer hanging out with this girl is the best solution. - More than a year ago
duskysummer Couldn't agree more. Stop hanging out with her or at least wait a couple of years. - More than a year ago

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tudorsevern (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Think of jail!!!!
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