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Denzil (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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Hey, I got into a car accident last night and it was my fault (wasn't paying attention at the lights). I had a girl in the passenger seat. It was a pretty nasty crash but no one was injured except for me thank god (minor cut and bruising on arm). Now apparently I found out this girl likes me but now since the accident I'm not so sure. She wasn't angry or anything just a bit shocked but relieved. Thing is I only get to see her when my mate goes out with his girl because they're friends. So um yeah just wanted to know if you'd still like a guy even though he got into an accident with you. It's just that I feel a bit traumatized and embarrassed about it all.

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Combat-Crash (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Yes I would. If anything I'd probably like him more. Now, I'm not saying go crash every time you get a girl you like. I'd just feel like I like this guy, and we just went thru something together. It's something you guys can talk about, and it will be something that you'll both remember.
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Snoosome (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
You should try and apologize. Maybe some roses and a box of chocolates?

If she brings up the subject, be a man and admit that it was your fault and don't try to make it seem less than it was. I think that a man that can face his responsibilities is a man indeed.

I think that she still likes you. Either way, an apology is still required.
It's the right thing to do.
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
I would give her some time. I got into many car accidents when I was in high school (most were my fault) and I think it is just a stage. I wouldn't think that a car accident would sway her too much on liking you. She is probably just shaken up on the whole thing. Maybe you should go up to her and ask her how she is doing since the accident and let her know you are interested.
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wantingitall (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
It is a matter of trust she may have been shaken up but if she liked you yes she still should!
If you like her let her know it tell her and you guys will grow and the trust will be there again!
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
If she knows it's not your fault then it shouldn't be that big of a problem. I agree with DeanW. Call her and make sure she's alright. She'll respect that.
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marisa (Age:30 to 35)      When: 9 months ago
My now boyfriend got into an accident when we were first dating. It didn't change my mind about him but, to this day (2 years later), I don't trust his driving and this causes fights sometimes.
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Trice26 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
First apologize to her. And tell her you'd like to go out again and make it up and tell her you will even let her drive.
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Don't worry about it bro you got it... she does probably.
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f15x28 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Next time you talk to her, casually and humorously tell her: "I learned my lesson: thinking about you while driving is not a good idea!"
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SIRKGM14vg Haha, smooth. - 6 months ago

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DeanW (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
You should call her to make sure she's doing ok today. I don't know if she'll still be interested in you or not, but it's safe to call and check on her either way and if she does still have an interest (provided she drives in the future!) it's most necessary for you to be showing concern in order to keep that going. She's likely a bit traumatized as well - and possibly angry today - so expect that. As a side note, it's not uncommon for people to form a bond when something major like that occurs.
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
I would say that you still go after her. Accidents happen, and it doesn't sound like you were being a jerk or doing anything you were not suppose to (like drinking and driving, or trying to show off and it backfired).

If anything, this experience has given you something to laugh about.

Good luck.
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