Should I tell him I am pregnant?

i would not tell him since he doesn't apparently want to KNOW! It would be different if he possibly interested in having kids.

If you tell him, it will seem like you are trying to guilt trip him into marrying you. And you don't sound like you want to do that.

Take his mom's advice, she knows him better than you or anyone else.

No, I think in this situation, you dont' tell him. It would seem like you want to 'trap' him. And if you aren't willing to go it alone, why tell him?

Easy for me to say as a guy, of course. This happened tome and I always felt bad that she didn't tell me, even though it wouldn't have changed her decision since I would have agreed to the abortion anyway.but I still have a tinge of regret. Naturally she was just trying to spare my feelings and not make me feel that she was being manipulative.but still.

If you have decided that an abortion is best, then there is nothing to be gained by telling him. You have said that he doesn't want you and he doesn't want kids. There is no right to know if the response is going to be for you to go away out of his life and get an abortion.

yes you should tell hm, because its his right as a dad/guy persay to know that you are pregnant with his baby. you never know he may decided to have kids when he finds out that you pregnet. but you and him should talk it over a decided it over together.

What do you mean by you can't handle having a baby (physical reasons)? If not for physical reasons I would reconsider the abortion and think about adoption. there are tons of couples who would love to adopt and sometimes they will even pay your expenses during pregnancy. I would tell him and discuss your option of abortion or adoption. He might surprise you on his decision. But it wouldn't be fair to him or you too keep this a secret because down the road it will eat you inside with the what if's or he might find out from someone and be completely resentful of you with holding something this major.
If you do tell him don't be inpersonal about it and call up and say hey I'm preggo and its yours. Meet with him tell him you need to discuss an important matter with him. then tell him your 8 weeks preg (he'll figure out its his if he's a real man about it). then ask him how he feels about it. then bring up you want to have an abortion or what ever and see what his veiws are.

tell him. what's the worst that could happen? he'll get mad and not talk to you? that's already what its like with you and him now. its his child too so he should know.

I think you should tell him that your pregnant and see how he gets it

he defidently has a right to know. but really do you want an abortion. I know you don't want to handle a baby and all, but getting an abortion is worse than. eating puppies! (sorry, only thing I could think of) Of cousre it's his baby too, maybe he wants the baby, or doesn't want you to get an abortion. You could always give the baby away after you have him/her.

I think that you should tell him. He is the father and you should not have to take on the responsibilities of making this decision all alone.

I think he defintaely has a right to know and you definately should tell him before you do anything. Who maybe he might come around and want to be a father and be in the child's life. It seems like you are really sure about this aborion but I would tell him before you make a decision that you might regret. So I would say tell him.