My boyfriend doesn't help. I don't feel as attractive as I used to, and like I said my boyfriend doesn't help with pointing out all of my tiny flaws. It really makes me mad because even tho he has some boyish gross features or whatever (typical guy stuff like not taking a shower after a day or something) I still never say anything! but the minute I have a blemish on my back or something natural he points it out and makes me feel so un appealing. so what can I do to fix that?
I'm sorry to be so blunt BUT find a new guy. You are doing the right thing in not saying a lot of things to him. I would say something about him not showering. How old is he that he doesn't know to take a shower every day or twice a day if he has to. He is taking you for granted already. TRUST ME IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE! Don't say yes but I love him. His actions are that he doesn't really love you. Do you want to put up with a lifetime of this?
I know that was really blunt, but it's the truth! No guy who's worth a crap will treat you bad or make you feel unattractive. If he is your boyfriend he should make you feel happy and beautiful. And should he really be talking about you if he can't even be bothered with basic hygiene? Call him out on his BS and then kick him to the curb.
You shouldn't have to put up with him like this. He is being rude and not respectful of your body. He is being hurtful and hurting your self esteem. I know a lot of people have already said to look for someone new which I think from the little bit you told us, you should. If he loved you, he'd accept you for who you are. He wouldn't be pointing out every flaw you have. I know it can be tough to leave sometimes, so if you really can't do that, talk to him about it. Let him know how it makes you feel and that it really bothers you. Set him straight you know? Don't let others bring you down. I'm sure you have plenty of good features if the only bad ones he can point out is a blemish on your back, you must have it good everywhere else haha. But seriously, you don't need to take that.
Mine does the same. I never say anything back. He asks me to point out any flaws he may have, but I never have an answer. Truly, I see nothing wrong with my bf. It bugs me that he's sees things in my (physically) that he doesn't like. I say maybe leave him. I've put up with my boyfriend for quite some time. Maybe too long, so I suggest setting him straight or just forgetting him.
I just thought I'd speak out about this because I'm 18 years old my friends range from 16 to 19 but a lot of my friends and people I know are 16 /17! And to be honest I'm shocked that girls now a days...
As a note, I have changed the names of the people involved to protect their privacy.I still remember my first girlfriend. A goofy girl who had a reputation at the young age of 12. I did not realize...
You need to let him go you should be your own independent woman without a guy telling you to do this and that. If he loved you back he'd appreciate what you do.
So you let some random chick takes you girls place, yet you still want her enough to not break up with her? YES TELL HER, SO SHE CAN DUMP YOUR SORRY ASS. She deserves better.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: A month ago
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