Self Confidence....

When you judge yourself it can be easy to overlook your best quailties. You are your own worst critic and, athough it dosen't feel like it, your "flaws" arn't as obvious as you think. Self Confidence isn't about lying to yourself. its about understanding that your not perfect but nobody eles is either. It makes woman attractive because they act friendlier. when you feel everyone can see imperfections, you tend to hide yourself.

Its not that attractive of a trait because most of the time it makes you look like a snob. Any ways from looking at your pick your not that bad looking as a matter of fact I find your face very attractive

self-confidence is the single most attractive trait anyone can have.

self confidence doesn't come from thinking you're attractive or that other people like you.

self-confidence comes from knowing your strengths and talents, and using them.

self-confidence comes from knowing you can solve your own problems and control your life.

self-confidence comes from recognizing your fears and shortcomings, but not allowing them to control you.

self-confidence comes from taking responsibility for your victories and your mistakes, and learning from both.

self-confidence comes -- most importantly -- from setting and achieving goals: knowing what you want in life working towards earning it.

self-confidence is a process, it's not something you earn and hold forever. it takes a lot of work, but it's worth it.

Confidence stims from within and is certainly not attributed to looks alone. There are so many women who look great but are completely empty inside, for example this girl: link

Anorexia is all pychological in my opinion, these girls have attributed their happiness with being skinny, but when they become skinny and still feel empty inside, they don't know what's wrong and still have the idea that they just aren't skinny enough. They accociate their unhappyness with food and fat rather then other areas of their personality.

Confidence comes from the faster quarter mile you were able to run, the B you studied hard to get and quitting the addiction you didn't want. All of these things boost confidence which is challenging yourself in becoming the person you want to be. It could be losing weight or having the courage to standing up to your boss.

Confidence is how you feel about yourself and the steps you took or am taking to becoming that person you want to be.

Think about all the people who you feel are confident, what do they all have in common? They know who they are and everyday practice those principles set by themselves.

Hi there,

Just looked at your profile and pic; you have no reason not be self confident. If you want a self confidence boost, then just look at all the things you're good at and accentuate those in your mind. Any of the bad stuff that you're not to happy about, just drop as soon as they enter your mind.

first don't look to the mirror and talk at all , believe it inside you the power inside us not in the words that we say , trust you'r self believe that you can and will do anything with out fear .

you can't physically SEE confidence, but when you have it, you act completly different. I used to feel the same way about myself, and be super shy. I never had a bf. but, now I am confident and find myself beautiful, and I don't pick at every little flaw. I have tons of guys that are interested in me now. when you are confident, you feel more outgoing, so you talk to new people, and make new friends, and the more friends you have, the more likely it is you'll have one that likes you.

how you can get it... first figure out why you don't think your awesome. there is usually something wrong going on in your life, like a death of a loved one, you don't get along with ur parents, bad grades, etc. then when you figure out the problem, think of many possible solutions to fix ur problem.

once the major things are taken care of, do little things that make you feel good about yourself(thats not bad for your heath!) lyk, go buy some new clothes, get a cute haircut, get ur nails done, etc, just something that makes you feel really pretty.

then, be social. its kind of hard at first, but it feels natural after a little while. if you have 2, fake more confidence, and you will really feel it soon. just remember, don't be stuck up because nobody likes that

Self confidence is more than thinking you look attractive. That's conceit. Confidence is about attitude. You set the example of how people should treat you by how you treat yourself.
You don't have to have perfect hair, perfect teeth, or a perfect body to be confident. You just have to be happy with what you have. Focus on all your positive attributes, ignore the things you can't change.
It's not easy to accept yourself - society teaches the opposite. Throw away everything society taught you and just be comfortable with who you are. Men love women who don't have to be constantly reassured. Walk tall, keep your chin up and show the world you love yourself. If you can't feel it - just fake it until it becomes ingrained. That's what I did, and it worked.

concentrate on the good rather than the not so good. Keep reminding yourself of all the good things about you, your mind, your body and also use positive affirmations and this should help.