This year I had to go to a new school. So I started trying to make new friends cause I like talking to people. So I joined a club and I met a lot of cool people. One of them is..lets say "Bobby". Now at first it was pretty cool talking to him, about 2 months into school he got switched into my art class. We can sit where ever we want so I started sitting by him and got to know him more. Then one day he starts talking about if we ever went out and I tried leaving him he would break my legs. I just laughed it off like it was a joke. I thought that would be the end of it, but then my friend "Josh" start teasing me about "Bobby" and again I laughed it off. But "Bobby" won't stop bothering me and he gets creepier everyday. I don't know what I should do.
Update: I've told him many times to quite it but he won't stop and I've told him that I don't think the whole tough guy act is cool. after that he started touching me. not inappropriate but still I don't like it. When I tell him to stop he laughs at me.
9 months ago
Most likely he's being creepy because he really likes you and has no clue how to express himself, so he is trying to be funny and failing miserably. The best bet if you don't like him is to do what Sexy said, if you DO like him then you might want to give him some hints that what he is doing isn't working and that it might be best to just ask you out, or hey ask him out =P
It sounds like you don't really like him anymore, if you ever did, so Id follow sexwiseman's advice.
What about next time bobby makes a creepy comment to you, you just look at him seriously and tell him, 'i don't know if you're trying to be funny, but I don't like (or appreciate) any of your jokes; one more of those, and I won't be talking to you again.' If this is too confrontational, then, maybe relay the message to bobby through one of your common friends.
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