I really like this guy and I met him through his brother. His brother really likes me, but I really like his brother. I finally got the nerve to tell him how I felt and he told me he liked me and I asked him if I was wasting my time and he told me no. He just broke up with his girlfriend a week ago and said he doesn't want to be with her but she can't let go. If he says I'm not wasting my time why is it like pulling teeth from him to get him to talk to me? When he does talk to me its very minimal. Help please, do I leave him alone or do I keep trying I don't know what to do?
That's a difficult set-up because you've got the ex-girlfriend and the brother. It'll take time for those aspects to simmer down. My hunch is that there's too much in the way for the relationship to take off now or anytime soon.
It seems like there is too much going on in his life right now for him to start another relationship, and if he did, he probably wouldn't be able to devote much of his attention to you anyway.
I would say back off for now, and give him sometime to get over his old girlfriend. Leave yourself open for other opportunities and try to meet some other guys, being available to others is the quickest way for this guy to realize that me has to act first if he does want you.
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