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Should the legal drinking age be 18?

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dclown47 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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To answer the question it should be 18. This is something I quite don't understand why the legal age limit is 21. I'll be 18 in less than a week. Legally, I can buy tobacco products, move out of the parents house, join the military, vote, and be recognized as an adult.

I can hold M-16 and go kill the "bad guys", but I can't go into a bar and have a drink. I had my first drink when I was 16. Pretty early age I would say but compared to my parents, my dad told me he had his first drink when he was around 13. To get one thing clear my parents don't condone drinking or go out and buy me a 30 pack. They have however told me the facts and taught me just about everything I can. It's up to me however I decide to use that information.

As I said before I had my first drink when I was 16. I've never been drunk. I've never stumbled home or threw up because I didn't know how to control myself. I look at some people though, who are experiencing their first taste of alcohol and it is pretty crazy. These people are drinking everything they can, mixing and matching, throwing up, and of course acting like the drunk person no body wants around.

If anything drinking a few beers at this age has taught me how to have self control. Learn now. "It is better to learn to drink in a parent's house than a fraternity house" ."In these situations responsible drinking could be taught through role modeling and educational programs. They figure that a twenty-one year old person was more mature than the average eighteen year-old. I feel that just because a person lives to be twenty-one does not determine how mature they are. "

Some say, we have barriers in place so no child will purchase an alcohol product. I laugh at that. If anything, prohibition has taught us that simply doesn't work. You take something away, you're only giving that person a reason to get it. I know people who can easily get beer for their parties so they can play beer pong, no questions asked. Hell, they'd even get a keg but you need to leave your license for that. How hard is it to stand outside a package store, wait for someone, tell the guy what you want and give the guy an extra $5 for the favor. It is just way to easy. By lowering the age to 18, you won't have the incentive to go out and drink because one the thrill or danger of it is removed.

There are only 4 countries in the whole entire world who have their legal age limit at 21, the United States, being one. It is not okay to buy a drink, but it is okay to drink as long as you have permission? It just seems all to weird to me.

This is more like a rant of my personal opinions and views on this matter and I know some will oppose. Anyhow, I would like to hear your views on the subject. Thanks.


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spottedwolf
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spottedwolf      When: 11 months ago
You might be one of the mature ones that know "hey, I don't need to drink a lot or get drunk" mut there are so many out ther that don't. I do not believe the drinking age should be lowered to 18. I do however think that there should be a stipulation to it. I think if you are in the military and have you military ID you should be able to buy it at 18. Lilitary guys are more mature and responsible.

So I think the law should be legel age to buy alcohol at 21 unless can provide poper military ID at 18 or older.
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katsume18
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katsume18      When: 11 months ago
I think its rather messed up. Like you said we are old enough to go kill the "bad guys" for our country, we can go to the grown up prison and be treated as adults all around but we can't buy ourselves a drink until we are 21. There is something totally wrong with that logic. Another thing is that people tend to want what they can't have. \
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bonitabonita
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bonitabonita      When: 11 months ago
I know fourteen and fifteen year olds that spend their spare time getting absolutely smashed out of their faces until they don't know what day of the week it is - and the drinking age is 18 - so I don't really think that the legal age makes a difference, and they mostly do it I think because the fact that it's not allowed makes it appeal to them more, so I think that it doesn't matter what the legal age is, whoever really wants to drink will find a way. Possibly doing something more dangerous in the process of trying to get what they want?
so it doesn't matter. whatever will be will be.
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Mehszie
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Mehszie      When: 11 months ago
In holland, where I live, it's 16. (harder liquor 18) There is quite some alcohol abuse, but the numbers say it still isn't as bad as in e.g. the UK. The driving age is 18 though (we all cycle to school, no need for a car :P).
I think it's okay this way... for me personally. I've learned to drink limited on an early age. My parents would warn me for alcohol and my mom and I would talk about what I did when I went out and how much I drank... Of course I tested my limits sometimes, but that just isn't any fun...
I do think 18 is a better age when I think of some of my friends's stories... But then maybe there's two new things teens wanna try that never go together: drinking and driving.
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Shlei3
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Shlei3      When: 11 months ago
Beer at 16 and harder liquor at 18. The driving age should be postponed to 18. Reason being? A majority of 16 year olds are not mature enough to drive but once they are 18 anything they do goes on their record and is their own responsibility rather than the parents. That's a whole other discussion.
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rocksongwriter Well,at 16, if they're not mature enough to drive, how are they mature enough to drink beer? - 11 months ago
Answerer In Europe (not all countries) the drinking age is 16 (for beer) and 18 for hard liquor. If they get accustomed it will be less taboo in my opinion. I was raised around alcohol and so were all the rest of my family. None of us felt the need to booze it up and in fact, it was less tempting. - 11 months ago

JeVousAime
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JeVousAime      When: 11 months ago
In my country (UK) 18 is the legal drinking age!
Absolute buzzin' for next week.. ;)
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SunshineLady
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SunshineLady      When: 11 months ago
you got a point there mister!

where I'm from, guam's drinking age is 18 and life's a lot funner!
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-StillWater-
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-StillWater-      When: 11 months ago
In my country it already is... so...
You're considered of age at 18.
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poofs517
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poofs517      When: 11 months ago
i don't know if 18 we'll be able to make good decisions with alcohol but it'll be a hell of a good time! so I voted yes
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smilezz
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smilezz      When: 11 months ago
In Canada the legal age is 19 (18 in Quebec). And even though we can drink in just about every country but the US it's not such a big deal. Turning 21 is a landmark that everyone looks forward to, cause after that kid is when the responsibility comes.
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anonymous147
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anonymous147      When: 11 months ago
the drinking age should stay the way it is. it currently is set at 21, yet 16 year olds think it's okay to go and get drunk. I knew sooooooo many kids in high school that went out at 16 and 17 and got drunk on the weekends. now imagine that we set it at 18. that might make 12 year olds think it's okay for them to drink. another reason is that 18 year old guys are still growing. their bodies are still developing and maturing, and polluting with tons of alcohol is horrible.
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Confuzzled_88
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Confuzzled_88      When: 11 months ago
I'm 20 and don't think the drinking age should be 18. I just believe that people at 18 still need some growing up to do and would make some bad decisions. I think more deaths would result from drunk drivers from between those ages.
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danceforsome
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danceforsome      When: 11 months ago
i voted yes... we just had a debate about this in sociology class
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sxchiqa
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sxchiqa      When: 11 months ago
in the middle east ts 18!
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lettersfromtheheart
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lettersfromtheheart      When: 11 months ago
In Australia its 18, which I think works very well.
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xxangel1990xx
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xxangel1990xx      When: 11 months ago
Yep in England it is 18 and I don't see why it should be higher in other places, it would really annoy me if it was raised to 21 over here-i mean, you're classed as an adult at 18 so you should def be able to drink legally.
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
No, I don't think it should be 18. I think it should be 16. Over here in Britain, it's already 18, which there is absolutely no need for.
People start drinking younger, but it's usually a form of rebellion against law, I personally believe, reducing the age of consent for drinking would stop so many people rebelling. :)
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1catydid
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1catydid      When: 11 months ago
i agree with most of the people at my school, some of the teacher agree as well, if we can be charged as an adult, vote and fight in the war, and also be regonized as an adult they should allow us to go to a bar and get a drink
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Shiner4
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Shiner4      When: 11 months ago
I believe that teenagers are going 2 find a way 2 get alchol one way or another. I do think there is a maturity difference between 18 and 21 but its not like the law makes that much of a difference from who is drinking.
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 11 months ago
yeah I don't know. age and maturity aren't the same thing. one is a number & the other is based on experience/ knowledge.
in canada, I believe our limit is 18. I'm 21 and drink occassionally. but I do find it weird that you have all these rights like being able to buy tobacco, or w/e, but still can't legally drink till 21.
but generally 21 year olds should be hypothetically more mature than 18 and drink responsibly.
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jess7
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jess7      When: 11 months ago
i am turning 20 pretty soon and I don't drink or anything... I think that the law was made to reduce the accidents that happen to teenagers... I think it mayde an impact for the better. I think that if it changes to 18 their will be more tragedies with younger people. I agree with you that their is responsible people that are 18 and their is 21 year old people that are jerks and are not responsible. I still think that the law should stay the same... it will prevent many accidents... great question. :)
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
no it should be 17
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Jay7755
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Jay7755      When: 9 months ago
If a eighteen year old can join the Army and go to war, they should be allowed to drink if they want to.
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STOKED
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STOKED      When: 10 months ago
The drinking age here in Australia is only 18
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smith2267
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smith2267      When: 11 months ago
Everyone drinks before age 21, so the 21 drinking limit is a bit of a joke.
Alcohol is actually a very dangerous drug, much moreso than anyone tells young people. We should try to prevent it's abuse. But I think education is the key, not a draconian drinking age that everyone circumvents ahyway.
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FRANK
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FRANK      When: 11 months ago
What you've explained is one of the many reasons why most of us Europeans think the US is a crazy country!
Of course alcohol abuse is dangerous (Americans are no better than most at that), but moderate drinking is actually very good for the health.
Young people need to be well educated on the dangers of alcohol and what moderate drinking is: 1-3 units per day. (1 unit = small glass of wine, or half pint of light beer).
The myth (common in the English-speaking world) that the ability to drink a lot is a sign of masculinity, strength or virility must be destroyed, as this "ability" is in fact a sign of dependence!
Teenagers should certainly have the right to enjoy a drink with a meal.
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tristan1988
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tristan1988      When: 11 months ago
I personality voted for "No" .
The Current poll results have shown that more people voted for "Yes" than "No". However I strongly believe that those people who have voted for "Yes" are mostly younger than 21 and people who have voted for "No" are probably older than 21.
As teenagers, they can't wait until they get 21 to drink because some of them think they are mature and can drink now. But they don't think that one day when they become a father/mother, would they want their children to drink at early age like 13-20? I believe all the parents will answer "NO" and a little says "Yes"
So just think about it that you will be a father/mother in the future and you don't want your children to drink at that age then why are you voting for "Yes" now? Thinking that you're a father/mother and then answer the poll.
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obscene
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obscene      When: 11 months ago
I think it should be 19
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D000d
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D000d      When: 11 months ago
in canada its 19, I think that's a reasonable age
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MarlinsBB112
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MarlinsBB112      When: 11 months ago
Its 18 there because you don't have binge drinkers and stuff like you do here. People would go nuts here IMMEDIATELY and ud have a HUGE increase in accidents and deaths. I think that soldiers should be able to drink, but that would be with the exception that you have what I would call "Military I.D."

I think its fine the way it is.
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jhonny_bravo
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jhonny_bravo      When: 11 months ago
The acually history of it has to do with federal funds given to the states for roads. It's the states power to regulate the age for whom is allowed to drink at what age, but the federal goverment is not however required to give funds to the states for the roads. The federal goverment and the states made an agreement that said the states had to require the legal age of drinking to be 21 and for this they would fund the repair of roads and the building of roads.

So basically if the states lowered the drinking age then the federal goverment would pull the funding and the states would initially would have to tax the residents more to equal it out. The problem isn't the state its the federal gov controlling what the states do.
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Sinfulldeeds
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Sinfulldeeds      When: 11 months ago
Id have to say id much rather have the drinking age at 18 most other countrys have it that way and work great...heck but no matter what the age teens are still going to drink...and the whole we will go drinking then go driving thing I don't agree with too much all my friends wound ever do anything the dumb, I've grown up around alchol and what I've seen is its more of the adults that do it...
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Kruse001
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Kruse001      When: 11 months ago
everyone uses that argument "i can kill people and I can't drink yata yat yata' okay this is my opinion.

lets say you get permit at 15½ you go and bam ur 16 you gt ur liscence and you get a job. you don't have the money so you have to save up ok add one year to that so ur 17 and you have about 8 grand to buy a nice car and then you start driving. YOU HAVE 1 YEARS eXPIRENcE driving and you know since you got a car you want to race or see how fast I can get to 60. blahblah Last thing you need is a drink ontop of that. teens already have enough accidents by wreckless driving(looking at charts) what will alcohol add to it huh?

just saying this because my 17 year old friend (same age as I am0 died drinking and driving...

please post ur opinions
(NOT EVEryone GeTS a free CAr from their parents)
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NucoRose Lowering the drinking age does not mean permitting drunk driving... I'm sorry about your friend but he was recluse and would have died from drinking and driving even if the limit was 62; the point is that adults (18+) should be allowed to drink legally

sorry but it's the sad truth

- 11 months ago
NucoRose I had my first drink when I was 13 and the only time I drink is with my family or close friends that I consider family on special occasions; everyone in my family is like this and not one of us has even been in a car where the driver is drunk let alone getting in an accident

when people turn 18 they become adults, and part of being an adult is making decisions like getting out of a drunk drivers car, as well as having the perk of being allowed to drink - 11 months ago
NucoRose This is America and with privilege come responsibility, and I'm sorry to say that your friend was not responsible - 11 months ago
Answerer It's okay. but I hate feelng diffrent then I usially am. I'm kinda afraid to drink

thanks, I love to hear other ideas - 11 months ago

gotc147
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gotc147      When: 11 months ago
There shouldn't be an age limit, look at Germany, they don't have an age limit on drinking and they don't waste money on having their police bust up keggars.

If it wasn't illegal most young people wouldn't do it to excess, it's a taste of the forbidden fruit because we've set a restriction on it. Look back at prohibition.
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BrettH
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BrettH      When: 11 months ago
well I think it should stay 21. I know that 18 year olds and 21 year olds are just as immature as each other but its the hope they have some self control. hell I've had drinks before but I control myself. I drink I get a buzz and I slow down. I don't drink to get drunk or throw up. I do it to feel the buzz and that's it. unfortunately its hard to judge self control and that's what they try and do with it being 21 I personally feel like there's 40 year olds that aren't in control enough to drink but unfortunately you can't control that one. but really that's why I think it should stay 21 is because people just don't have the self control at any age but if you had to put an age on that then I think 21 is a good one.
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St-Dank-Tanks-LG
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St-Dank-Tanks-LG      When: 11 months ago
Maturity doesn't mean the same as age.

Anyways, if yo can be drafted and die in some god forsaken country thousands of miles away from home, shouldn't you be able to have a drink?
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FrozenDonkeyWheel
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FrozenDonkeyWheel      When: 11 months ago
I think it's extremely interesting that all of the guys who have voted thus far have said "no", and all of the girls have said "yes". I would have thought that most women would have said "no", and most men would have said "yes".
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regular-guy
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regular-guy      When: 11 months ago
The legal drinking age was changed from 18 to 21 to reduce traffic accidents and traffic fatalities. It was essentially a public health measure. And guess what, it worked.

BTW, what's with people asking a question then canceling their user account right after?
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
Personally, I don't like the law but I'll be 21 soon and it won't really apply to me.

Being at college and watching the freshmen come in, the worst ones are the ones that have drank before. They think they can drink and they try to keep up with the rest of us college boys and they end up a mess. Those who never drank before may drink too much once or twice but are more cautious about it after that. Most people don't drink for thrill or danger, they drink to get drunk. And just because it's easy to do doesn't make it not illegal. How hard is it to stab your parents with a knife while they are sleeping? Pretty easy huh. Let's all do it.

Now for the reason that the drinking age was raised from 18 to 21. They didn't do it because they thought you would be more responsible. They did it because statistically, that is the age group with the more motor vehicles accidents while being impaired. So by raising the age, there would be less accidents while under the influence of alcohol. And it worked.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
Few things.

First, yes you are old enough to fight and die in combat and he military realizes this, which is why military members 18 or older can drink on a military base. If you're so desperate to drink, join up.

Second, our parents' generations inability or unwillingness to abide by the rules and holding a mentality of "free spirits" and doing whatever made them happy is partially why the world is as messed up as it is.

Third, you're absolutely wrong. You can not consume an alcoholic beverage until you are 21, with or without permission. Have your parents tell that to the cop when they are being arrested at your 18th birthday party.

Fourth, if the only reason for some to go out and drink is because of the thrill, or danger, please explain to me why those over 21 continue to do it! In my opinion, your reasoning as to why 18 year olds should be permitted to drink shows me why you shouldn't.
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Question Asker Don't think I am so desperate to drink. I am just bringing up a point. And on your third point you are wrong. It varies from state to state. Take New York for an example.

Underage Possession of Alcohol

Possession is prohibited WITH THE FOLLOWING EXCEPTION(S):
parent/guardian consent
one or more specified religious, educational, or medical purposes

Underage Consumption of Alcohol

Consumption is not explicitly prohibited

http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/

There's the site.


- 11 months ago

jacquesvol
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jacquesvol      When: 11 months ago
There's not much laws can do about drinking at home. Drinking in bars isn't the same. No minors allowed in most countries. In some countries the barman or the owner can be fined for serving drinks to someone who is drunk. It would be a great idea if they could be sued for wrongdoings drunk customers commit after leaving their establishment plastered or semi-plastered.


I drank a lot between 18 and 30, stopped greatly then and stopped completely 5 years ago Since then I'm into coffee, Italian style (Bolivian Arabica dolce in espresso)

I don't think minors should drink alcoholic beverages.
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
I think drinking should be illegal for everybody.
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jacquesvol Just try to convince them: "a man who can't drink has no b*lls" etc...:-P - 11 months ago
 
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