How much time would a guy a need to decide if he wants to be with you or not after an argument?
You argue with the girl, you know she loves you (and supposedly you did too) yet you tell her you should be friends/need space. Would you stop talking to her all together to send out the message that you just don't want her anymore? Or would you come out and tell her straightforward?
How long should I wait for him to tell me what he wants and move on?
What would be the one thing a girl could do during that "space" time that would just annoy you so much, you'd remove her completely from your life without a single word. (Don't say hook up with another guy, I would never do that, I mean, things like try to call you or whatever).
Well, first off, if my girl wanted and I argued to the point of "space" there is something definitely wrong there....me, depending on the damage and the state of the relationship, I would call it quits...judging that I wanted space....
If you won't hook up with anyone else you will be stuck waiting forever, if I was in love, really in love, after an argument I wouldn't need to be friends/space. I might need a couple hours to cool off, but that's about it. There is no time frame to wait for you to move on, I don't think you will move on until he tells you its over, if it is. Meanwhile you are letting someone else dictate how you feel. As I said before, if you don't date others, you will wait forever because there is no reason for him to hurry or make up his mind because he knows you will always be there waiting for him to come back. It comes down to a quirk in human behavior. We want what we can't have and don't appreciate what we do have already! This is not my opinion, this is a psychological fact! He will never be able to appreciate you because he has taken you for granted, that you will always be there no matter what. When this happens you extinguish all passion in the relationship. Another example, what do we find precious? Gold, diamonds, yes, what about air and water? Air and water are plentiful, so we never give it a thought, until we have to go without water, or air for a day. Then they become precious.
So I shouldn't call him? I should just stay away, right? - 4 months ago
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I wouldn't call, at least not for a while. You can't move on that way. But even if you do call, sometime much later, I would only talk about general subjects, not about your past, or future. Basically call and chat like a mere acquaintance. - 4 months ago
I would wake up the next morning, book a hair and nail appointment, buy a hot dress and go out. If other men want to talk to me, I'll talk back, and not one moment will I spend sitting around pining away for a guy who wants space before compromise. An argument should strengthen couples and not destroy them.
That confidence alone will help you get through the low parts and push his buttons that he'll one, either take you back immediately - realizing how dumb it was to let anything he loves go away for a single moment, or two, decide he can go on without you - which I highly doubt, if he cares as you say he does.
Be careful how you play this though, I've gone through this recently - and he realized what an idiot he was, but by the time he made that decision, I just wasn't interested anymore.
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