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Should I take him back after he emailed other girls?

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countrygirlokie (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I broke up with this guy. He was a great and amazing guy, but he kept writing emails to these other girls asking them to meet and told them that he loved them and when they said you have a girlfriend. He always said we just have to see if it will work out . He told me that he just did this to make them jealous. He wants me back but I don't know if I should take him back help please.

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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
CountryGirl,

You are trying to convince yourself that he was "great and amazing" but deep down inside I think you know what he truly was. You take back a dog/cat that ran away but you don't take back a poisonous snake into your home... You leave it out in the wild where it belongs.
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Mafia885 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
If I was in your position. I wouldn't take him back. As the person said previously of me. He seemed to have every intention of cheating on you. The reasoning behind it is ludicrous. Doing it for almost self-pleasure by making others jealous? Make them jealous when they see you two kissing and holding each other. I wouldn't take him back. But I'm not an expert either. Good luck!
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Kaleina
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Kaleina (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
I would write him an email that says:

NO!

The guy is intent on trading you off for the next great thing - you're worth more than that.
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Lesae
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
No, he is telling other girls he loves them? He is cheating. He wants to make other girls jealous? If he had you and was faithful then why would he want to make them jealous? Get your self esteem back sweetie and let him know that you don't want that type of guy in your life and that you deserve better! Because you do.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No don't take him back. He had every intention of cheating if he hadn't already. He didn't have respect for your relationship. And even his excuse is dumb....#1 How is writing flirty emails to girls going to make them jealous and #2 why does he care about making other females jealous when he's in a relationship with you? Girl you can do better! Don't settle for a wannabe player who doesn't even have his game right
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