I want to be friends with my ex and we live in another town to each other so its quite hard. But I really do want to cos I want to get his trust for me back because we use to be best friends and then we became boyfriend/girlfriend and our connection feel apart. How do I make it stronger then before and gain his trust back without being to over the top
Honestly I think it won't happen. He could have formed some very strong feelings for you after being friends for so long, going into a relationship. Allow him space to figure things out. Maybe talk to girls about going out with him. That would show that you still care about him, but don't think a romantic relationship between you and him is best.
I don't think you'll be able to go back to the relationship you had before as close friends. I'm friends with 2 of my exes, and really, is more of an acquaintance relationship. We keep in touch via emails, and once in a while, we go have lunch or dinner. More like 3 or 4 times a year. I'm sure there are exceptions, but I can't become close friends because then the bf/fiance/husband becomes suspicious, so out of respect for our own lives, we just keep in touch. Matter of fact, I'm also talk to their significant others, but I never bring up the past. So honestly, If anything, maybe you can continue a link, but is not going to be a stronger connection than what it used to be. I think is best to accept the reality and just try to be a friend, but you won't do yourself any favors by trying to be a stronger/closer friend.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
How do they typically respond?
Well, it's worked 2 times and I've used it 2 times.. so 100% so far!
In one case there was girl in my class and she worked at the bookstore. I asked her if she liked the class and she said she didn't know. So I teased her about not knowing her own opinion, (nothing mean, just light humor) after that we got talking and I ended up getting her number.
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