Guys, please describe the perfect female. If you could handpick all the qualities she would have- from beauty to intelligence, humor, etc. What would she be like?
Very open..trustworthy and honest Athletic...not only in her body type, but also that she actually likes to do physical activities Hilarious and easygoing...knows how to make jokes as well as take them Smart...no need for Harvard, but a passion for knowledge and a general understanding of the issues of the world around her. Also, it's hot if she's really knowledgable in her particular career or profession. Understanding...not some snobbish girl who will scoff anytime the guy does one tiny thing imperfectly or shows any weakness. Stylish...nothing like a girl who knows how to dress. Versatile...a girl who can go out and have beers with a crowd, look stunning for a romantic dinner, play touch football with the guys, or host a mean cocktail party.
She must have commons sense and a job she likes and works hard for (it shows she has ambition). If she has a job she hates and she's out of college, it shows she doesn't have much motivation to take care of herself and she doesn't have personal goals. She must know that money is finite and that accumulating thousands of dollars in credit card debt for clothes she rarely wears, clubbing, and alcohol is not wise and is not worth it (this fits under common sense).
She must be in shape. If she is healthy it shows intelligence; It shows she cares about herself and she is conscious about her health. If she is in shape it shows intelligence, because being overweight or obese causes heart attacks and a million other heath problems. Simply being healthy and in shape shows so much about a girl's character (not just for looks).
She should "be feminine" according to my tastes. I like her to wear cute blouses, tops, and feminine pants. She shouldn't get carried away with the makeup though. She should have some sets of colored and sexy lingerie. That shows she is content with her own beauty. This should not be confused with a desire to have casual sex often; I find that behavior in women disgusting.
She should not be arrogant and full of herself. Just like with anybody, that makes a boring conversation. She should have a sense of humor and should know when to relax and how to relax. She should be mature when it comes to alcohol. She should know that she should not get intoxicated in the presence of a large number of strangers, because strangers could take advantage of her at a time like that (so many girls don't obey this). Getting intoxicated in the presence of a large number of strangers is just not smart (this also fits under common sense).
Most important of all, and so many women fall short at this character trait, is that she is not foolish enough to believe any lie or bullshit a man tells her!
She has to be comfortable in her own skin and she has to carry herself like a lady. The ideal female is someone we want to marry and have children with so I look for traits that make her a good human being which will make her a great mother and wive.
How crucial are physical attributes? What characteristics do you want your potential mate to possess? Turn-offs? Turn-ons? What perplexes you about...
View Answers
I am going out of town with my boyfriend for the first time in a couple of weeks. We are going to the beach with another couple. We will each have...
View Answers
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would tell her about my job and a little bit about my family to give her an idea of my background. I would hope she would think I am a genuine and caring person.
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
