So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and he is the kind that is really tough on the outside but an extreme softy on the inside but he hates letting his emotions show and if your a guy reading this I know I realize you don't like being vulnerable but it makes me feel like he doesn't want me involved or is thinking of me less I may be over reacting but it irritates me how he will start to have a serious talk with me and let me know what's going on in his life then he will stop and literally say I hate when I get like this and then he will stop it bugs me so much cause then when I go to him with my problems and him not to me it makes me feel like I'm overwhelming and just a pain to have around so if you have any advice on what I can do to help him out let me know much appreciated
Guys hate to be emotional cause we're guys. a lot of guys think being emotional makes that person weak (which isn't true). I guess the only advice I can give you is to be patient. when he's ready to open his heart and soul to you he'll do it.
I think you just have to get through that shell. Two months is not a completely long time to have been dating someone. I think you don't really know someone through and through until about after a year, but I think you can start to crack the hard shell on guys after about six months. And then remember all guys tend to have that tough guy persona. I think you just need to give it some more time. He'll start to open up and be more supportive.
I've been chatting w/a woman I met through a dating service. And e-mailed me if I have feelings for her, to show it in my e-mails. And she's afraid...
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