So there is this AMAZING guy that I have been hanging out with. I attempt to see him as much as I can, but at the same time I don't want to smother him so I give him space. We mostly hang out with a group, more his friends than mine. He's not always that affectionate, but when he decides to be he is VERY! The good thing I guess is that he isn't embarrassed to be cuddly in front of his friends, it isn't the "all over each other" affection. Its the cute, he kisses me on the forehead, grabs my hand, or hugs me from behind. Well anyways, I like him a lot. A lot, a lot! We have slept together twice ( no we have not had sex). I have known him now for like 2 going on three months. But we aren't dating. I think I made the mistake as naming us, "friends with benefits" the horrid phrase girls should never claim their relationship. Unfortunately I just wanted something to do with him, so I titled us that. Obviously he had no complaints and didn't deny that, the good thing is that it isn't "open", we have swore to each other recently we couldn't "hook up" with anyone else. But yet, he still hasn't made it official, he always says he isn't scared of a relationship but isn't ready for one. I'm afraid I ruined my chance by agreeing to just be friends with benefits. When in truth, I want much much more. Will he eventually want a relationship, or did I just totally blow it? I don't know what to do. :(
It really depends on the guy if likes you he will want to date you. I wouldn't stay with him if he doesn't except you as his girlfriend. Friends with benefits to me is a bad idea because you guys/girls will get emotionally attached on a more than friend level which will cause all kinds of problems. Good luck though!
I'm a little confused but. From what I gathered, this guy is displaying signs of affection, he's respectful of you, he hangs out with you (even if it's in a group). Seems to me he likes you as much as you like him! I'd give it some time.
Oh and by the way; friends with benefits DO have sex, that's the whole point. So if you haven't had sex with him, you can't really talk about 'friends with benefits'.
Just take it easy, talk to him a lot, have FUN together and take it from there.
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