What do guys think about dating in college?

If you are not ready or not sure, DON"T HAVE SEX.

And don't expect to marry during college, most guys don't really know what they want YET!

And most guys is scare about marriage

Try to meet guys in different age. And you'll see the different

Yes of course it's a good idea. . The main reason you see so much random sex instead of dating is because money is an issue when guys are in college.

As far as your last statement, he'll see it as a contradiction if you tell him that. You'll need to let him know that you're not ready for the relationship, but it might come at some point, and that you don't normally do this.

I never dated in college (undergrad anyway) because I had a very hard and time-consuming degree. I didn't have time to give a girl attention and spend time with her. So instead of just getting a girl angry by ignoring her, I just payed no attention to girls. I knew it would come after college and after I get a job to pay for it too.

My own dating experience in college was a complete disaster. Went to a very large college and couldn't get a date to lead into a relationship if I paid them for it! I left college bitter and mad at the world.

If he cannot respect what you want, find someone else. Because college demands a majority of your time, a relationship should be simple. Yet, don't feel that this will not lead to something special. Many a friend of mine met and married their college sweetheart. So it's not the sex fest that our culture displays college to be.

Makes total sense. I think you should make it clear before you start having sex that you expect it to be monogamous though, otherwise he might think you're just casual sex partners since I'm assuming you've made it clear you don't want a serious relationship. I personally prefer monogamous sexual relationships just because even when the relationship isn't serious I feel there's a special bond between lovers that I don't care to share with other random dudes.

Yes that makes sense. A lot of guys, too, are looking for just some sex and not really any serious relationship.

With my experience in college, no, there is no medium there maybe one for a little while but after some time one or the other seems to want to see other people anyway. Before sleeping with him tell him that you don not want to be just another girl that he "fucks" or sleeps with during his college days or w. E but that you would like to have a monogamous relationship and when you or him want to move on to be honesty with one another and say they are ready to move on and who ever it is does not want to lie about seeing or sleeping with other people. But ether way some one always seems to get hurt. Its all apart of the dating game.