Do you mistake comfort with love?

Thats an interesting comparison. Comfort vs love.

For my ex, I did love him. With all of my heart. But overtime so much had changed between us and in the end, that love was for someone and for something that 'used to be'.
It was the comfort I had with him that kept bringing me back to that relationship, and we were on and off for quite a long time. It's difficult, especially when you confuse comfort in a relationship for love, which then fuels the security for what we can 'picture' as a potential future even though it may not be realistic.

But really, at the very end, comfort can grow from love, but it shouldn't be the only thing keeping you there, especially when that love has already faded.

I did with my ex husband. Just got really comfy in the relationship. It wasn't love. I did make that leap. It was the best choice I ever made. You make your own reality. Everyone is in the exact relationship they want to be in.

I think that most people mistake Love for Romance. I believe that love is a choice and not a feeling at all, you choose to Love somebody, and when it is true love it is unconditional. Romance on the other hand is what most people think is love. Romance to me is the physical attraction along with the emotional attraction to somebody. When you are in Love you are willing to do anything for that person and it is unconditional love.